[www.keralites.net] Fwd: Negativity Should Go!

 

Negativity Should Go! it should go... it should go, because it only creates suffering. - just we take jealousy as example.   The moment you become perfectly aware that it only creates suffering it will drop of its own way. We work only if we hope that something beautiful is going to happen out of it- but with jealousy, it is not going to happen ever.   It simply poisons your sources of love. It poisons all possibilities of your growth, it poisons all relationships. It creates only smoke around you.   There is no question of finding a way out. Going out is not the question at all.   The only thing to watch is how one goes into it. The moment you have seen the process of going into it, you will not go into it. That very awareness becomes the disappearance of jealousy. People are in such a hurry to get out that they can't see how they get in, and that is the secret: just watch how you get in.   Once you have seen the whole process and the misery that comes out of it, in that very understanding something evaporates. Suddenly you are out of it and laughing, and suddenly you see the whole foolishness of it, the whole stupidity of it. And then one is surprised at how one suffered so long because of such a stupid thing!   You should always remain concerned about understanding it. Dropping is not the question at all.   It is like. If you can see a wall you will not go through it. the only thing is to see clearly where the wall is and where the door is. If you see clearly, you will go through the door; you will not go through the wall. It is only a question of clarity The secret is: just watch who you are, how you function, how you move into things.   Nobody can watch one's enemy; one wants to avoid him. If you have already decided that something is ugly, bad, evil, then you start looking sideways; you don't encounter it. If it is evil, who wants to see it? You want to escape somehow- and you cannot escape unless you encounter (come across) the evil.   'jealousy' is already to condemn it. change the name of jealousy. Call it X. Say 'I suffer from X, an unknown quality -something mysterious - that makes me suffer, so I have to watch this X and see what it is.'   And once you can watch rightly clarity arises, and clarity is your transformation. To understand a thing is to be free of it. To be aware is enough. This is a golden way to get free of jealousy or for that matter any other negativity.

 

 

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Posted by: Cool Kis <cooolkis@gmail.com>

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