Quite often I hear weak remarks. Just to give an example, recently I heard someone saying quite seriously that a specific VP in his company has nothing to do now a days and still making millions. What? Why a VP would need to inform you if he is working on something or not? If you have observed him having fun time for a short span of time, does this mean he is free all day long? Do you spend 8 hours dailysitting next tohim and observe every single thing he does? My friend, this is really unfair to give conclusive remarks about someones personality or character unless you have lived with them, being part of their laughter and despairs or worked very closely with him/her.
And by the way, in this example, what if the VP has concluded that you are not working now a days? Then you would respond that how come a VP can say something about me. So my question to you is that how come you said this about him?
As a matter of fact, if youare negative, you are spreading negativity too. On the contrary if you are an all-positive personality you are generating the ripples of peace and happiness in society. Hence I urge you not to waste your precious energies and time on gossips, issues of the past, negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energies in the positive present moment and do constructive activities and act like a responsible professional, a dutiful citizen and a nice family member J