Thursday 30 August 2012

[www.keralites.net] Leadreship Tip: Recognize Employees Who Step Up

 
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[www.keralites.net] Story: The Stone on the Road

 
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[www.keralites.net] Attitude and emotions - Powerful Lesson

 

 
However, when someone is doing something or is about to do something, in a way we don't want it to be done – and we are able to accept it – We remain tolerant.
 
When someone has something which we don't have, or someone is able to produce the results which we are not able to produce – and we are not able to accept it – we become jealous.
 
When someone has something which we don't have or someone is able to produce the results which we are not able to produce and we are able to accept it we get inspired.
 
When Someone is present in our thoughts, but if not physically present and we are not able to accept it – We say 'I am missing you'.
 
When someone is present in our thoughts, but not physically present – and we are able to accept it – We say 'I am thinking of you'.
 
Then emotional equation is quite simple.
 
Something + Acceptance = Positive Emotion
Something + Non Acceptance = Negative Emotion
 
So, it is not 'Something' or 'someone' who is making us feel positive or negative, but it is our 'acceptance' or 'non acceptance' of something or someone, which is making us feel positive or negative.
 
It isn't the world but the quality of our response to the world (acceptance or non acceptance) that determines the quality of our emotions.
 
Next time we feel disturbed with a negative emotion, instead of asking who or what is disturbing us, we will examine who or what we are resisting (not accepting) that is causing this disturbance in us. We will replace resistance (non acceptance) with acceptance, and the negative emotion will turn into a positive one.
 
Emotional management begins by stopping to blame that 'something' or 'someone' and starting to take the responsibility to respond to life with 'acceptance' .
 

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[www.keralites.net] Do not mind insignificant things

 

Do not mind insignificant things
 
A sage was living in the forest. One day, he visited the nearby human habitation to know about the condition of the people living there. The presence of the sage made everybody happy. Giving due respect, they escorted him to the temple located in the heart of the habitation.
 
The financial condition of the people was not good due to a reduction in production. The sage realized that everyone was broken in their hearts. The sage took his seat on the small stage in the courtyard of the temple. People were desirous of listening something from him. The sage took out a piece of milky white paper from his bag. There was a small black dot at the centre of the paper. The stage held the piece of paper high so that everyone could have a good look at it. All of them who were present there looked at it anxiously.
 
The sage asked, "What are you all seeing?"�
 
A young man answered promptly, "Sir, it is only a black dot!"� The sage pointed his finger towards another person and asked, "And what are you seeing?"� The middle aged man gave the same answer. Asking an aged man, the sage got the same answer.
 
Thereafter, the sage said, "That means, you all are not able to see anything other than the black dot."� All present there answered in loudly, "Yes."� Hearing this, the sage said, "You all are not able to see the paper in my hand. But, the small dot on that paper is able to attract the attention of all of you."� There was a murmur created in the crowd, "Oh yes, it really is so!"�
 
The sage smiled and said, "You all missed to see the paper though it was before your eyes. Life is also like that. Ignoring many big things around us, we concentrate on small things like the black dot. If we mind small and insignificant things always, will our life not get restricted? Free your mind. The solutions to all your problems are lying hidden inside you. You will get everything you desire if you only meditate and think."�
    
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