[www.keralites.net] Letter by Hongkong TV Psychologist to his Kids

 

Following is a letter to his son/daughter from a renowned Hong Kong TV broadcaster and child psychologist.

The words are actually applicable all of us, young or old, children or parents!

This applies to daughters too. All parents can use this in their teaching to their children..

Dear Son/daughter

I am writing this to you because of three reasons

1. Life, fortune,and mishaps are unpredictable,no body knows how long he lives. Some words are better said early. I am your father,and if I don't tell you these,no one else will. What is written is my own personal bitter experience  that perhaps could save you a  lot of unnecessary heartaches. 

Remember the following as you go thru life .

1. Do not bear grudge towards those who are not good to you. No one has the responsibility of treating you well ,except your mother I .

To those who are good to you , you have to treasure it and be thankful,and ALSO you have to be cautious,because ,every one has a motive for every move. When a person is good to you ,it does not mean he really likes you. You have to be careful,don't  hastily regard him as a real friend.

2 . No one is indispensable , nothing is in the world that you must possess.

Once you understand this idea,it would be easier for you to go through life when people around you don't want you any more,or when you loose what/who you love most

3Life is short.

When you waste your life today,tomorrow you would find that life is leaving you. The earlier you treasure your life ,the better you enjoy life.

4 . Love is but a transient feeling,and this feeling would fade with time and with one's mood. If your so called loved ones leaves you , be patient, time will wash away your aches and sadness.

Don't over exaggerate the beauty and sweetness of love,and don't overexaggerete the sadness of falling out of love

5 . A lot of successful people did not receive a good education,that does not mean that you Can be successful by not studying hard ! Whatever knowledge you gain is your weapon in life. One can go from rags to riches, but one has to start from rags!

6 . I do not expect you to financially support me when I am old, neither would  I financially support your whole life. My responsibility as a supporter ends when you are grown up . After that, you decide whether you want to travel in a public transport or in your limousine,weather rich or poor

7 . You honor your words,but don't expect others to be so. You can be good to people,but don't expect people to be good to you. If you don't understand this, you would end up with unnecessary troubles.

8 . If you want to be rich , you have to WORK HARD ! There is no FREE LUNCH !

9 .No matter how much time I have with you ,let us treasure the time we have together . We do not know if we would meet again in our next life

Your Dad n Mom

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