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Subject:  10 Situations Where You Could Avoid Being Judgmental

 

 
By Junaid Tahir
This is more or less part of our DNAs that we react to situations instantly without giving a second thought. At times, this is perfectly a normal phenomenon and the impact of our reactions is acceptable as long as it based on positive and realistic judgement. However, it is usually seen, that our reactions slash someone's emotions or causing psychological disturbance, especially if the person is sensitive. Here are some situations:


 

1.      The Taxi drive might be an MBA. Don't underestimate his education level. He might have a reason to drive taxi.

2.      The boy who mistakenly hit you in crowd might have leg surgery a week back. Don't misjudge his character.

3.      The senior you made fun of because of the scars on his face might have fought for the country. Don't feel irritated because of his outlook.

4.      The boy you made fun of because of crying, his mother might have died. Don't think that a male cannot cry.

5.      The person who was issued a police ticket for parking in disabled parking area might actually have a disabled son/daughter. Don't conclude things quickly.

6.      A not-so-tall person might have much higher ethics. Don't conclude things based on physical outlook.

7.      A poor man may have cleaner heart than you. Don't have a discriminated feelings as he may be more closer to the Lord because of his deeds.

8.      The rich person might have earned his wealth without any corruption. Don't put bad labels on successful people without knowing them very closely.

9.      A rude person in market may have lost his car in an accident. Don't react based on an instant observation. Find out the real story or stay calm.

10.   The fat person might be starving today. Don't Laugh on his obesity. Probably he is obese because of his genetics.

 

 
 
Good and bad reactions create strong ripples. Whatever you say or do is observed, absorbed and repeated by the people around you which in turns gets expanded in the society. Be mindful on what you say to others or what you share on social media or what you do in public. Each of your action is transforming the society in a good or bad way. So don't be judgmental and don't be reactive; it is not what we say, it is how we say.
 
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Junaid Tahir 
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Subject:  NaMo !

 

Narayana Murthy :

I don't say ‪‎Modi is the best PM, but its the first time i watched PM's speech other than that on 15th august

I don't say Modi is the best , but its the first time i know my country is safe

I don't say Modi is the best PM, but its the first time 20k indians gathered in for a politicians speech on a foreign land

I don't say Modi is the best PM, but its the first time every NRI is proud

I don't say Modi is the best PM, but its the first time 80 countries are listening to Indian PM.

I don't say Modi is the best PM, but its the first time when Pakistan is totally screwed up and China is scared.

I don't say Modi is the best PM, but its the first time USA knows it not the sole power

I don't say Modi is the best PM, but its the first time Obama realised, he is not the most famous politician.

I don't say Modi is the best PM, but its the first time INDIA seems a superpower.

I don't say Modi is the best PM, but its the first time The World Knows WHY WE ARE THE WORLDS LARGEST DEMOCRACY

I don't say Modi is the best PM, but its the first time I know

 I AM A PROUD INDIAN !!!

 

HAMARA BHARAT MAHAN !!!
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Thanks to Mr.V. Soman, for posting these interesting & satire comments on NaMo.

- SIVA

 

 

 

Subject: Moral Values

 Integrity, Honesty, Ethics, Character, Conduct, Spirituality, Empathy, Behaviour, Sympathy, Faith on God are some of the Moral Values much needed

for better, happier living by people.

- SIVA

When the ancient Chinese decided to live in peace, they made the great wall of China. They thought no one could climb it due to its height. During the first 100 years of its existence, the Chinese were invaded thrice. And every time, the hordes of enemy infantry had no need of penetrating or climbing over the wall...because each time they bribed the guards and came through the doors.

The Chinese built the wall but forgot the character-building of the wall-guards. Thus, the building of human character comes BEFORE building of anything else..That is what our Students need today.

Like one Orientalist said: If you want to destroy the civilization of a nation there are 3 ways:

1. Destroy family structure.
2. Destroy education.
3. Lower their role models and references.

1. In order to destroy the family: undermine the role of the Mother, so that she feels ashamed of being a housewife.

2. To destroy education: you should give no importance to the Teacher, and lower his place in society so that the students despise him.

3. To lower the role models: you should undermine the Scholars, doubt them until no one listens to them or follows them.

For when a conscious mother disappears, a dedicated teacher disappears and there's a downfall of role models, WHO will teach the youngsters VALUES?

Have a thought! Is our home also invaded?- OMG !!!

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Thanks to Mr.V. Soman, my RECT 72 batch mate for posting this thought provoking message about Values.

- SIVA

 

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