Monday 24 March 2014

[www.keralites.net] This is for you .............

 


 

This is for you.


 

 

 

 

 

Here's to the people who try their hardest to be good enough for everyone; who spend hours reading random quotes to find the right one; who listen to the same song dozens of times because the lyrics mean a lot; who deserve so much more than they get and are willing to fight for it and those who wished upon a star, wasted on someone that will never care; and to the beautiful people that feel lonely in their heart.


 

 

 

 

You don't ever have to feel guilty.

by Brigitte

You don't ever have to feel guilty about removing toxic people from your life. It doesn't matter whether someone is a relative, romantic interest, employer, childhood friend or new acquaintance- You don't have to make room for people who cause you pain or make you feel small. It's one thing if a person owns up to their behavior and makes an effort to change. But if a person disregards your feelings, ignores your boundaries, and "continues" to treat you in a harmful way, they have to go."


 

 

You'll learn something about yourself.

by Brigitte

No matter what, once in your life, someone will hurt you. That someone will take all that you are, and rip it into pieces and they won't even watch where those pieces land. But through the breakdown, you'll learn something about yourself. You'll learn that you are strong. And no matter how hard they destroy you, that you can conquer anyone and anything.


 

 

 

You did your best.

by Brigitte

If you regret some of the decisions you made in the past, don't be so hard on yourself. At that time, you did your best with the knowledge that you had. At that time, you did your best with the experience that you had. Some of your decisions might of been coping skills and a time when you didn't know what you know today. If you were to make those decisions with the wisdom you have now, you would choose differently. So give yourself a break and forgive yourself. Time and experience has a wonderful way to make us realize that we prosper, grow and learn to make better choices today, for ourselves and those we care for.


 

 

Be there.

by Brigitte

Sometimes, we need someone to simply be there. Not to say anything, but to let us know they're on our side and that they care for us.


 

 

 

Don't hide.

by Brigitte

"The truth is that there are a lot of people like you, us, with strange thoughts or dispositions or a past and we try to hide it because we're afraid that it makes us seem different. We think people won't accept us or it will turn people off, but that's a mistake. I found what makes us unique has brought every person I love into my life and the one's who walk away just don't belong and we're better off without them anyway. Be yourself and stick with the people who love what you're all about and your life will thank you in many ways.


 

 

 

 

Believe them.

by Brigitte

When people treat you like they don't care, believe them. They don't.


 


 


 

 

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