Till she re-marries she follows the Gotra of her late husband. Her father has already done Knayadan and sent her to her in-laws' house, and hence the Gotra of her father is reduced to irrelevance after she has entered her late husband's life. In case she does not remarry she retains her late husband's Gotra for life. This is my understanding after discussing with our family Vadyar.
You may please follow the view you feel is logical and is acceptable to you.
Regards,
V.Suresh
V.Suresh
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On Thursday, November 5, 2015 2:02 PM, "Dave Satishchandra davesatishchandra@yahoo.com [Keralites]" wrote:
Obviously they should accept her GOTHRA of her own parents, as it is she is going to start her NEW PHASE OF LIFE, and we must consider her NEW LIFE PARTNER'S Gothra too, which will be followed by their future ISSUES in their life ( THEIR KIDS ).
SATISH DAVE.
From: "TSivaramakrishna Iyer iyerauh@yahoo.co.in [Keralites]"
To: Keralites@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Wednesday, November 4, 2015 9:51 AM
Subject: [www.keralites.net] Query/Discussion - Which Gothra to follow to a Widow/Divorcee?
Hi
Recently we have received a serious enquiry on the following and awaits logical answers from experienced seniors and educated persons.
Parents of a young issue-less widow (educated professional and owns a flat, self-sufficient with no encumbrances) is looking for a widower/divorcee who likes to re- marry and likes to accept this young widow and live together initially in Chennai City.
Please advise Which Gotha the parents to follow
a) The Girls parent's Gothra or
b) The Girls Ex-husnad's (Father-in-Laws) Gothra
b) The Girls Ex-husnad's (Father-in-Laws) Gothra
Awaiting suggestions/advise from all well wishers, at the earliest
Growing together is a sign of Success.Pranams Dhanyawad
TSIyer
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