Email OF The Day: 07/20/17

Thursday 20 July 2017

[www.keralites.net] ANGRY WOMAN

This is one angry woman… WITH A POWERFUL PEN… who wrote this…
Let';s hope this mail reaches everyone in the British Isles…
It was inspired by the fact that her daughter's application to the UK VFS office for a Visa was not-only denied… but they didn't return the passport for more than 21 days… due to which their entire holiday which was paid-for in advance... was cancelled..!!
She says it… LIKE IT IS…!!
AND BE BROUGHT TO THE NOTICE OF THE BRITS..!!!!
For the QUEEN HER BUNCH OF JOKERS...
Dear Queen E, PM @ 10 Downing Street, The KING "in Eternal Waiting" Charles and the complete Royal WRECKS... House of Lords House of Commons... and the dry stiff upper lip English Folk..!!
You came to India 270 years ago without a visa and without a "May we please"..... we welcomed you because as Indians we believed in Athithi Devo Bhayo... as we still do… meaning a guest is like God Himself in Disguise.
You overstayed your welcome did we say anything..?? NO.
Then you played dirty politics did we say anything..?? NO.
You ruled us turning us into slaves in our own country and we didn';t say a word. We were meek mild and peace loving people.
You took our Kohinoor and did we say anything..?? NO.
But you killed looted and made a mockery of us till we could take no more. You made us fight your wars and we shed blood for a war in which we had nothing to gain... all we did was lose young lives.
You were thrown out of the country without any bloodshed but even as you left you divided us and left a bloody trail on your way out. Did we say anything..?? NO
But you still didn';t leave us alone. You got thousands of Indian to migrate to the UK to do your dirty jobs and even there you treated us like second class citizens. Did we say anything NO.
You made our Mother tongue a second language did we say anything..?? NO
You left a whole generation of Indians who were clueless as to who they were… a brown sahib or a home grown Indian..??
You bastardized our language, our food, our clothes, our religion, our customs our habits our perceptions, our pretty much everything... and yet we only threw you out..!!
Every country that you ruled threw you out.... Have you ever thought WHY..??
Its time to do a reality check...and do it fast 'British People'..!!
It';s known that Indians like London as a holiday destination... ever wondered why..?? Because all of us have had British History... War of Roses, Henry I to Henry VIII shoved down our throats... we probably know more about you then you know about yourself. But now as a rich upcoming nation we want to see and want our children to see you in your own grounds. And since you have given us Cricket which is a craze with us every self respecting Indian wants to go to Lords... its like a pilgrimage. And we are at home in London.... Oh stop curling your stiff upper lip anymore it will crack..!!! Because its familiar territory, has enough Indian Food... and anyway, didn';t we read about chicken tikka masala being your National Food..?? And enough Indians everywhere..!! And we Indians like familiarity wherever we go…
Plus you really can't afford to shop at Harrods and Selfridges... we can! Oh yes… that's the bitter truth... swallow it with your cuppa..!!!
And if we don';t drink or buy your Scotch and Single Malts… your fine breweries will shut down..!! Another bitter pill... swallow it with your pint… because you can ONLY afford that while we hard working Indians glug glug on your finest..!!
So to make it short and sweet and hit you where it hurts... we Indians are holding up your economy... and yet you give us a run around for the visas..?? Are you guys warped in your head... Oh that you are..!! Otherwise you would still be ruling the world... now all you have is a tiny island and the stolen Kohinoor..!! We have the money, we speak better English than you, we are more educated and we spend.... So we call the shots here...get it..?? Your economy survives on the pounds that we indians spend... and so does your real estate... because the maximum real estate investors are Indians..!!
I am not even going into the issue of how the Indians hold most of the wealth in the UK… because that would be the final straw that broke the back of the Camel..!!!
No, no... you guys never learn..!! Take a lesson from USA... every step to get your visa is streamlined and in two minutes you know whether you have got a visa or not. But you guys think you are too good to even speak to us… you hide behind an iron curtain, a faceless cold persona that is inaccessible..!! Once the passport is given to the VFS... all we do is twiddle our thumbs. You take Rs.500 extra to give us mobile updates... nothing ever comes of it.... not even one message. We cant call anyone... and there is a number which is a London number which says please deposit 'x' pounds before you can speak to someone.... Gosh… you are really quite broke..!! I don';t blame you... what with the upkeep of the Queen and her kids and their kids and their kids and their nannies... and their mistresses and boyfriends and divorces and wild parties… there isn';t much left to go around..!! So you try and get it from folks applying for a visa... keep the money deny them a visa... it';s a cool way... but then the problem is not the visa... the passport you hold onto interminably... and give people the run around...
Is that your way of deriving sadistic pleasure against a people who you once ruled and now they occupy your country and control the economy..?? What';s with you guys..?? Why can';t you just have a system like the USA... why don';t you get off your high horse and learn new things..?? Or hasn';t anyone told you that you guys no longer rule the world..?? Oh..!! Oh..!! Don';t look so shocked... you seriously didn';t know… that the sun does not rise or set in the British Empire any longer..?? What Empire.. ha ha ha ha..!! It';s even smaller than one state in India....
You Brits live under illusions and delusions.... and now I think dementia is setting in too! Oh… and even Ireland / Scotland / Wales don';t want to have anything to do with you… and Australia NZ too... I can';t help but gloat and say those famous lines from the Hindi Movie Sholay... "Ab tera kya hoga gora..??"
British High Commission... please understand. People here work for a living and we guys don';t have dole. People plan holidays in advance, book tickets in advance and take leave from work in advance... then they apply for a UK Visa much in advance... yet even after reading their travel dates you don';t give them their passports in time. Then we have to cancel all our flight tickets and bookings made online… have you no compassion..?? Or maybe you don't know how the three R';s... come join one of our convent schools and you will have perfect knowledge of reading writing and arithmetic..!! And that stiff upper lip... gosh someone please smash a fist into it once and for all..!!
Another point... why would any happy Indian living under a hot Indian Sun, with servants to do work and drivers to drive their fancy cars… want to go and live in London..?? Dreary gloomy grey weather... cold... and cold unsmiling faces in blacks and greys.... get over yourself Brits..!! Stop looking at every brown colored person with suspicion..!! You are not superior… and your country doesn';t have much to offer..!! Earlier… at least there was Diana... now toh woh bhi nahin hai...
Hamarey pass MNC';s, Computer Savvy population, a buzzing economy and sunshine hai... tumharey pass kya hai???
One small voice from the British Isle says... Hamarey pass Queen hai..!! Indians double up laughing... much to the annoyance of the Brits... they laugh and laugh... and finally one of them says… Hamarey pass toh woh Queen hai jisne London Thumka diya..!!
Hello Queen… hello Lizzie... hello... why are you hiding..??

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[www.keralites.net] CHIDAMBARA RAHASYAM [ The Secret]

Chidambaram temple embodies the following characteristics :
1) This temple is located at the Center Point of world 's Magnetic Equator.
2) Of the "Pancha bootha" i.e. 5 temples, Chidambaram denotes the Skies. Kalahasthi denotes Wind. Kanchi Ekambareswar denotes land. All these 3 temples are located in a straight line at 79 degrees 41 minutes Longitude. This can be verified using Google. An amazing fact astronomical miracle !
3) Chidambaram temple is based on the Human Body having 9 Entrances denoting 9 Entrances or Openings of the body.
4) Temple roof is made of 21600 gold sheets which denotes the 21600 breaths taken by a human being every day (15 x 60 x 24 = 21600)
5) These 21600 gold sheets are fixed on the Gopuram using 72000 gold nails which denote the total no. of Nadis (Nerves) in the human body. These transfer energy to certain body parts that are invisible.
6) Thirumoolar states that man represents the shape of Shivalingam, which represents Chidambaram which represents Sadashivam which represents HIS dance !
7) "Ponnambalam " is placed slightly tilted towards the left. This represents our Heart. To reach this, we need to climb 5 steps called "Panchatshara padi "
"Si, Va, Ya, Na, Ma " are the 5 Panchatshara mantras.
There are 4 pillars holding the Kanagasabha representing the 4 Vedas.
8) Ponnambalam has 28 pillars denoting the 28 "Ahamas "as well as the 28 methods to worship Lord Shiva. These 28 pillars support 64 +64 Roof Beams which denote the 64 Arts. The cross beams represent the Blood Vessels running across the Human body.
9) 9 Kalasas on the Golden Roof represent the 9 types of Sakthi or Energies.
The 6 pillars at the Artha Mantapa represent the 6 types of Sashtras.
The 18 pillars in the adjacant Mantapa represents 18 Puranams.
10) The dance of Lord Nataraja is described as Cosmic Dance by Western Scientists

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[www.keralites.net] HAPPY SHRAVAN / Saawan

Shravan Month begins on 23rd.Wishing Happy Shravan to My Friends, who are celebrating
Shravan Month, or Sawan Mahina, in the traditional Hindi calendar followed in North India is dedicated to Shiva. Special prayers and rituals are performed in Shiva temples and in sacred places associated with Shiva. In 2012, Shravan Mahina is from July 4 to August 2 in traditional Hindu calendar followed in North India. Somvar or Mondays in the month is considered highly auspicious

worship of Shiva. Kanwarias travel to the origin of Ganga River to collect holy water, or Gangajal, to bath the Shivling at their homes or in villages.
Mangala Gouri Puja is observed on Tuesdays in the month.
Shiva temples across North India have special poojas in this month. Deoghar Baidhyanath Dham and Kashi Vishwanath Temple is visited by millions of Hindus in the month of Sawan.
It is believed that Lord Shiva to save the world drank the poison 'halahala' that came out during the Samdura Manthan or churning of ocean. It is said that the gods in Hindu pantheon assembled to witness this holy act of Shiva. Water from Ganga is offered to cool Lord Shiva and to alleviate the ill effects of the poison.

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[www.keralites.net] WHY IT IS TOUGH BEING A DAUGHTER IN LAW IN INDIA

Why it's tough being a Daughter-in-law in India?
I have been wanting to write this one since some time.
I would really be pleased if even one person changed after reading this.
I remember one incident. Way back during my Post-Graduation days, I was treating a young lady who was facing major depression because of in-laws related harassment. While discussing my progress, a senior of mine said - "Spend some extra-time on this case, You are going to come across hundreds if not thousands of them in your life.."
If you ask me Today, even I would give the same advice to any young counselor/psychiatrist.
Irrespective of your religion, caste or creed.. Here are
5 OUTRAGEOUSLY IDIOTIC THOUGHT PROCESS, which lead to "psychological, physical and financial abuse" of a Daughter-in-law in India -
1. "Outsider Tag" - The main reason for evil, is the lack of acceptance of a daughter-in-law as part of the family. Every day I meet and counsel families who "keep a daughter-in-law" out of a discussion.
I have heard thousands of stories of how the husband and his parents, talk secretly in a room while the daughter-in-law is made to watch TV, because she is an "outsider"...
The really ironic part is that, when I asked some of such people what they thought about "untouchability", they had these really "amazing answers".. But they failed to realize the same behaviour in their own home!
2. Insecure Parents - One of the most common lines I come across in counseling parents - "that woman took away our son".
It's time to accept it, most Indian parents are selfish. So let's keep the "selfless love tag aside".
They "invest" time, money and love on a son.. So he can repay by taking care of them in their old-age. The finer print to this is - They expect him to behave like an obedient 5yr old kid till they die!!
They just get insecure when he starts to take his own decisions. Decisions that will revolve around his "selfishness" for his own family.
Have you heard the saying - what you throw into the universe, comes back to you magnified!!
3. No guidance through Adjustment phase - Have you ever heard about Adjustment phase or Adjustment disorder?
In most probability you don't even have the faintest Idea what it is. Adjustment phase is the time it takes the mind to adjust into a new environment. Adjustment disorder is very high levels of sadness, fear, depression and anxiety that one suffers, if the adjustment phase fails. In great majority of cases this disorder requires medicines for cure.
The adjustment phase for daughter-in-law in Indian setup, would be anywhere between 1 - 2years.
How much time is given to her for adjusting? - So-called PROGRESSIVE households say - 1or maximum 2 month is more than enough.
During this time, no one guides her. She has to learn on her own.
Now as you can logically deduce, the failure of adjustment phase leads the brain of many ladies into clinical levels of depression and anxiety.- this is manifested as fear, sadness, anger, irritation!!
TO ADD INSULT TO INJURY - how do Indian household take care of this depression/anxiety.. Another IDIOTIC thought is seeped in - Have a child!! Everything will be fine!! - No doubt we have reached 1.2 billion..and mental health illness is growing exponentially every year!!
4. Everyone loves the Dark Side - It doesn't matter how rich or powerful you are. It takes a lot of inner strength to stand against the Regressive thought process of society. I have seen mother in-laws who treat their daughter-in-laws like "slaves". They decide on her daily routine, feel pride in giving her "holidays" and hand over a list of things she "demands" her parents to provide.
All this Stupidity is done in the name of "SOCIAL RULES".
Hardly a marginal percentage of people stand against this.. why?
Because it's so easy to like the negative.
Remember in childhood you were taught - Bad habits come easily and are very difficult to go.!
Its so natural to like the dark side.. and as a big Joke.. Everyone prays to GOD for more of it!!!
5. Husband is still a boy not a man - Most men take a lot of time to mature. Maturity isn't related to physical age, but your mental outlook. Most men behave as small boys, who are happy outsourcing their responsibilities to their parents.
A great number of men find marriage a legal way to have sex, someone to talk to and roam around with.
Most don't have the maturity to understand the emotional and social responsibility they have towards their wife.
Most are not ready to accept the changes that life demands once they get married. Most men cannot stand up to their mother or father and fight for their wife. But they have on great trait, they create amazing "excuses" to run away from this responsibility.
There are 5 additional issues, which affect a daughter-in-law. I will not write about them today, but sometime soon. These are -
1. Difference in rules for Own Daughter vs those for Daughter-in-law.
2. Passive aggression - when In-laws slowly their own son/daughter relationship through gossiping, unnecessary intervention and rigid rules.
3. Turbulent past of Mother-in-law and how it changes her present brain-behaviour pattern. Due to her own turbulent past.
4. Parents of the "daughter-in-law". - love vs. social laws.
5. having a girl child doesn't mean you are blessed or cursed.. It's change in your attitude that matters, else be prepared for a repeat!
If you like this article, do share it... lets together bring some change in the society!
written by -
Dr.Hemant Mittal (Social Influencer and Motivational writer)