Friday, 7 March 2014

[www.keralites.net] 9 Rules for Staying Positive

 

By Junaid Tahir
 

 
Straight to the point, below are my 9 self-created rules in order to stray positive and live a stress free life:

 
1-      I must develop the power of not looking back in the past to read the old chapters of life again and again because I cannot go back to my past to fix things. Whatever has happened has happened. Now is the time to review the lessons learnt once and then focus on to improve my present and future. 

2-      I have to stay away from negative souls which means I have to avoid spending time with people doing backbiting, criticising, cursing, complaining, conspiring, corrupting and complicating. (More about the 6 Cs can be read at this link). 
3-      I have to stop judging others for their actions. I must mind my own business instead of interpreting their actions and commenting in negative way. Thinking and speaking about others pollutes my thoughts and steals my peace of mind.
4-      I must develop the habit of gratitude. Which means that at the end of each day I must refresh the fact that I am better than billions of the people of the world. Being healthy, not in debt, sleeping on the bed, eating 3 times a day and using internet are the great blessings billions of people don't enjoy. (Some pictures here). People possessing high level of gratitude strengthen positive powerful thoughts.   
5-      I must spend time in reading good books, visiting websites on positivity, liking Facebook pages containing quotes and reading inspirational stories on daily basis. This will help remove negative impurities from my personality and empower my positive personality trait.

6-      I must stop being explosive and reactive to people and situations. I must stay positive about other's feelings and respect their opinions because every soul is unique in thinking so I should avoid imposing my thoughts to others. I must confess the fact that I can be wrong at times so understanding other's perspective be being empathic is very important for me to avoid building stress reducing my self-positivity-index.
7-      I must be positive about my circumstances even if they are not so good. I have to understand the fact that time does not stop so I have to start taking the necessary actions to expedite the change process. One thousand plans cannot be equal to the power of one great step taken right now!!!
8-      I must of focus on spiritual awakening acts such as a) frequent attacks of smiling, loss of ability in conflicts, loss of ability to judging others, ability to react to things as they happen instead of living in fears and so on.   

9-      I must focus on improving the quality of my thoughts because quality of thoughts determine the level of peace of mind. (Reasons for Negative thoughts can be read here)
 

 

 
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Junaid Tahir 
 

 
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[www.keralites.net] Try Something Different

 

We can make smaller, inner changes on a day-to-day, moment to moment basis – changes in our attitude, reactions, and expectations. I'm talking about being willing to take new risks, and face old fears.
 


 
Over and over again I hear people saying things like "I've always done things that way" or "That's just the type of person I am." These things are said as if they are carved in stone. It is amazing what you can learn by simply opening your mind and trying new things.
Starting today, tell yourself that you are going to do something, however small, a little differently. Perhaps you can be more friendly to the people you work with. Maybe it's not too late to overcome your fear of asking others to help you, or for their advice whoever you are, whatever you do, there is always something you can do a little differently.
You may find that you love the tiny changes you make and that you can open exciting new doors by making relatively small adjustments. If you're okay with the changes, you might want to try some other changes as well.

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[www.keralites.net] Keep Working

 
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ഇന്ന് ഏറ്റുമാനൂര്‍ ഏഴരപൊന്നാന ദര്‍ശനം...


ഭാരതത്തിലെ പ്രമുഖ ശൈവക്ഷേത്രങ്ങളിലൊന്നായ ഏറ്റുമാനൂര്‍ മഹാദേവക്ഷേത്രം തീര്‍ഥാടകരെ തെല്ലൊന്നുമല്ല ആകര്‍ഷിക്കുന്നത്. ക്ഷേത്രത്തിലെ ഏഴരപ്പൊന്നാന ദര്‍ശനം ഭക്തര്‍ക്കു നല്‍കുന്ന ദര്‍ശന സായൂജ്യം വിവരണത്തിനുമപ്പുറമാണ്.

ഏഴരപ്പൊന്നാനകള്‍ അഷ്ടദിക്ക് ഗജങ്ങളെ പ്രതിനിധീകരിക്കുന്നു. ഐരാവതം, പുണ്ഡീരകം, കൌമുദം, അഞ്ജന, പുഷ്പദന്തം, സുപ്രദീകം, സാര്‍വഭൌമന്‍, വാമനന്‍ എന്നിവയാണ് ദിക്ക്ഗജങ്ങള്‍. വാമനന്‍ ചെറുതാകയാല്‍ അരപൊന്നാനയാകുകയാണ് ഉണ്ടായതത്രേ.ഏഴരപൊന്നാന, രത്നഅലക്കുകളുള്ള പൊന്നിന്‍കുട, നെന്മാണിക്യം, രത്നംപതിച്ച വലംപിരിശംഖ്, കരിങ്കല്‍നാഗസ്വരം, സ്വര്‍ണവിളക്ക്, സ്വര്‍ണകുടങ്ങള്‍, സ്വര്‍ണനാണയങ്ങള്‍ എന്നിവയുള്‍പ്പെടുന്ന സവിശേഷശേഖരം ഏറ്റുമാനൂരിന്റെ
സ്വത്തും ഭാഗ്യവുമാണ്.


കേരളത്തിലെങ്ങും ഏറ്റുമാനൂര്‍ ഏഴരപൊന്നാന ദര്‍ശനം പ്രസിദ്ധവും ഭക്തജനപ്രിയവുമാണ്. നാടിന്റെ നാനാഭാഗങ്ങളില്‍നിന്നുമായി തീര്‍ഥാടകസഹസ്രങ്ങള്‍ ദര്‍ശനസായൂജ്യവും അഭിലാഷപൂര്‍ത്തിയും തേടി ഏഴരപൊന്നാന ദര്‍ശനദിവസം ക്ഷേത്രാങ്കണത്തിലെത്തുന്നു.

കുംഭമാസത്തിലെ തിരുവാതിരദിനത്തില്‍ ആറാട്ടുവരത്തക്കവിധം ചതയത്തിനു കൊടിയേറുന്നു. എട്ടും പത്തും ഉത്സവദിവസങ്ങളില്‍ ഏഴരപൊന്നാനയെ ദര്‍ശനത്തിനായി പുറത്തെടുക്കുന്നു. ഇവയൊഴികെയുള്ള ദിവസങ്ങളില്‍ ഉത്സവബലി നടക്കുന്നു. ഭക്തന്റെ മനംകുളിര്‍പ്പിക്കുന്ന അപൂര്‍വ്വദര്‍ശനമെന്ന് ഏഴരപ്പൊന്നാനദര്‍ശനം ഭാരതമെങ്ങും കീര്‍ത്തിനേടിയിരിക്കുന്നു.
 

 
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ചാവക്കാട് മണത്തല വിശ്വനാഥ ക്ഷേത്ര ഉത്സവം ഇന്ന്‌
 

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