Failure in Love :-
A student's duty is to study and nothing else. He must focus on his studies only. In most of the cases, growing physical and emotional needs are mistaken as love.
Internet and mobiles have provided vast communication facility. Regular contacts in classes and schools increase attachment. A subconscious need to have the same company all the time strengthens bond between them as the time goes on.
Internet and mobiles have provided vast communication facility. Regular contacts in classes and schools increase attachment. A subconscious need to have the same company all the time strengthens bond between them as the time goes on.
Reasons for Failure in Love :
- The grown attachment may not turn into real love
- Cast and Class conflicts
- Reduced attachment on leaving school or college
- Deterioration in studies if it is only a physical attraction leading to restrictions from parents
- Cast and Class conflicts
- Reduced attachment on leaving school or college
- Deterioration in studies if it is only a physical attraction leading to restrictions from parents
Attempting Suicide :-
Reasons for Attempting Suicide -
♥ When parents come to know about the strong attachment of their children with opposite sex, it becomes too late. Meanwhile, the teenage boy makes the girl his whole world. He can not see anything except that girl in his dream life. He thinks of her day and night and is drawn deep into her world. At this point, parents try to break the relationship immediately if they are not in favour of it. Parents call a war against their own blood and the desperate teenage couple leaves the fight and commit suicide.
So, the parents must have a close watch on the child's friends and his level of attachment with his friends.
♥ In some cases, the issue does not reach to the parents if the attachment is only one sided or weak from either side. The boy or girl who is attached tremendously may get frustrated on being left alone by the other.
♥ When parents come to know about the strong attachment of their children with opposite sex, it becomes too late. Meanwhile, the teenage boy makes the girl his whole world. He can not see anything except that girl in his dream life. He thinks of her day and night and is drawn deep into her world. At this point, parents try to break the relationship immediately if they are not in favour of it. Parents call a war against their own blood and the desperate teenage couple leaves the fight and commit suicide.
So, the parents must have a close watch on the child's friends and his level of attachment with his friends.
♥ In some cases, the issue does not reach to the parents if the attachment is only one sided or weak from either side. The boy or girl who is attached tremendously may get frustrated on being left alone by the other.
Life is not to Leave but to Live
I will like to draw attention of my teenage friends here. Please, try to understand the concept of love in its real sense. Love is limitless. Love is life itself. It never takes life but gives.
Swami Vivekananda says-
 "We are all beggars. Whatever we do, we want a return. We are all traders. We are traders in life. We are traders in virtue. We are traders in religion,. And alas! We are also traders in love..."
" We get caught. How? Not by what we give, but by what we expect. We get misery in return for our love; not from the fact that we love, but from the fact that we want love in return..."
"The great secret of true success, of true happiness, then, is this: the man who asks for no return, the perfectly unselfish man, is the most successful..."
" Ask nothing ; want nothing in return. Give what you have to give; it will come back to you, but do not think of that now, it will come back multiplied a thousandfold but the attention must not be on that."
 "We are all beggars. Whatever we do, we want a return. We are all traders. We are traders in life. We are traders in virtue. We are traders in religion,. And alas! We are also traders in love..."
" We get caught. How? Not by what we give, but by what we expect. We get misery in return for our love; not from the fact that we love, but from the fact that we want love in return..."
"The great secret of true success, of true happiness, then, is this: the man who asks for no return, the perfectly unselfish man, is the most successful..."
" Ask nothing ; want nothing in return. Give what you have to give; it will come back to you, but do not think of that now, it will come back multiplied a thousandfold but the attention must not be on that."
L♥ve and L♥vers F♥rever and ever
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