[www.keralites.net] Procrastination

 

Procrastination-the chronic fear to face problems! Procrastination means the inability to do a thing and postponing it. It indicates the chronic fear to face a problem. When one is afraid, one automatically postpones. Postponement and self deception that the work will be done sometime after, but not at the moment, or by someone else, becomes hormonal--the automatic reflex. The work however small or trivial it may be, begins terrorising. And one becomes one's own accuser and also excuse finder---the Dr Jekyll continuously defending the Hyde, both painfully aware of each other. And Jekyll lives in frustration; Hyde with deception. Hyde creates the deception habit while Jekyll looks on sarcastically. But Hyde drags Jekyll everywhere. The person always jumps with a promise, first to second any move, but only to automatically frustrate and actually obstruct the implementation. He obstructs everyone else, creating an atmosphere of failure and frustration. The social frustration which he creates becomes his alibi (our society is like this, what one person can do?).He piles up failures and also scholarship. Unfortunately when he climbs up the social ladder by creating general dissatisfaction and a general sense of failure, he confronts the need to actually do work, something to which his hormones are not accustomed. He becomes the leader under seize. To appear to be doing something, he automatically attempts a big reorganization. Work needs doers, not orators. Doers are always calm, they cannot postpone and concentration is their basic habit. They create the nation of doers and their work speaks for them.Now, what are we, a nation of doers or just orators? Orators need problems, frustrations—their bread and butter. Courage simply means doing the work.Cowardize is the excuse habit and automatic postponement. Work and decision go together. Procrastination, indecision and cowardice go together. Ultimately the habit of procrastination leads to the habit of sabotage. The people live with problems, never attempt to face and solve them. They begin day dreaming for a deliverer—the dictator. When a problem terrorizes the best method of solving it and getting rid of the terror is by facing it head on and doing the daring by doing. When one sits on piles of failures, one automatically gets many that ridicule, lampoon, cheapen..., making the urge to run away by abandoning or by postponing, irresistible. Happiness needs self actualization, which needs doing and not by the self deception of procrastination.

 

 

__._,_.___

---

Posted by: Cool Kis <cooolkis@gmail.com>

---

Reply via web post

•

Reply to sender

•

Reply to group

•

Start a New Topic

•

Messages in this topic (1)

---

Have you tried the highest rated email app?

With 4.5 stars in iTunes, the Yahoo Mail app is the highest rated email app on the market. What are you waiting for? Now you can access all your inboxes (Gmail, Outlook, AOL and more) in one place. Never delete an email again with 1000GB of free cloud storage.

---

KERALITES - A moderated eGroup exclusively for Keralites...

To subscribe send a mail to Keralites-subscribe@yahoogroups.com.
Send your posts to Keralites@yahoogroups.com.
Send your suggestions to Keralites-owner@yahoogroups.com.

To unsubscribe send a mail to Keralites-unsubscribe@yahoogroups.com.

Homepage: http://www.keralites.net

Visit Your Group

• New Members 6

• Privacy • Unsubscribe • Terms of Use

.

__,_._,___