HI
FRIEND
U CANT blame ur daughter neither ur son in law as he not ur son ..do remember he is ur son in law ...
as far as ur daughter is concern ...she is married as off course u cant blame her also as she has to listen to her husband n act accordingly as its fly matter .. or else u wil b one to b held responsible to spoiling ur daughter life n fly ..
as u knw a dauhters hands r always tied by som or other restriction by either fly members or by tradition..
n by the way if u had any son then u could b taken help of cops or any social workers or organisation wthin ur area but that too if u had son n he would not look u ..
but this is son in law ..
if he wishs he wil look after u n that will b his greatness but since he is not ur son but son in law ...
so u cant do any thing as if u wish too do then u will spoil the soup between ur daughter n her husband ...
so plz think twice later crying ..
n dear wt u will do going kerala ...
why dont u try out n seek som help frm any social organisation which will tak care of u dear
or any templesas priest u can work as..
der r two benifits ...
u will earn good name as priest as ur hindu n ur accomodation will b arrange by temples trustees
but since ur 58 yrs old
i wish u b wth us in mumbai in our house as u wil b good company tomy father as he is also not smae but bit older then u ..
but i hv to tak permission of my dad n mum as
i myself staying wth them dear....
so if they say yes ,,, u can stay wth us till life do us apart n that is GOD wish . as destiny is not in our hand ..
n going kerala .. again u will b alone der .. n if u fall sick etc etc ... who is der to tak care ..tell mee ..
as at last daughters look after their fathers but som times son in laws hates that then wt daughters can do ..nothing as they hv to obey their husbands cos our stupid tradition n society says we man r great n women r nothing but in fcats i say ..mans r stupid n womens r great.....
so u think n reply dear...
dont worry GOD GREAT ..
hv a blessed day dear...
On Sun, Nov 4, 2012 at 2:07 PM, Gopinathan Kr
<gopinathan_1501@yahoo.in> wrote:
My two daughters got married as their own choice one with a Christian and the other with a Muslim.Presently I am living with my elder daughter in Delhi. Now coming to the point, as my wife was paralyed and I had to take long leave from the company where I was woking and the result was that I was thrown out from the company as they could not afford me as I was taking long leave.
During my wife's ill health and treatment in private hospital I had to shell out all my earnings including gold ornaments and I am living with my elder daughter without an income. As you friends know it is very difficult to adjust with a son-in-law of other religion. During 2-3 occasions I have been asked to leave the place and take shelter somewhere. Friends you may advise me to file complaint against them but I do not want to hurt them in any way. I thought of giiving news in local malayalm newspapers but my inner mind advised me that that will affect my daughters future life. Accordinly, I decided to leave for my native place but unable to do so because of shortage of funds.
If any of the friends like to help me financially at this juncutre so that I can reach Kerala safely, please send me an e-mail so that I can provide you the details you want. It is once more requested that I do not want to hurt my dauthers or relatives or move legally.
If I am wrong in giving this information to Keralites, please excuse me and leave it unnoticed.
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WITH THANKS AND REGARDS,
MAX.P.P..........
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