Tuesday, 3 July 2018

[www.keralites.net] BEAUTIFUL LETTER WRITTEN BY A FATHER TO SON

Beautiful letter written by a father to his son...
Following is a letter to his son from a renowned Hong Kong
TV broadcaster cum Child Psychologist.
The words are actually applicable to all of us,young or old,children or parents.
This applies to daughters too.All parents can use this in their teachings to their children.
Dear son,
I am writing this to you because of three reasons.
1.In Life,fortune and mishaps are unpredictable,nobody knows how long he lives.Some words are better said early.
2.I am your father, and if I don't tell you these,no one else will.
3.What is written is my own personal bitter experiences that perhaps could save you a lot of unnecessary heartaches.
Remember the following as you go through life.
1.Do not bear grudge towards those who are not good to you.No one has the responsibility of treating you well,except
your mother and I.
To those who are good to you,you have to treasure it and be thankful,and ALSO you have to be cautious,because everyone
has a motive for every move.When a person is good to you,it does not mean he really likes you.You have to be careful,don't
hastily regard him as a real friend.
2.No one is indispensable,nothing is in the world that you must possess.
Once you understand this idea it would be easier for you to go through life when people around you don't want you anymore,or
when you lose what/who you love most.
3.Life is short When you waste your life today,tomorrow you would find that life is leaving you.The earlier you treasure your life,the better
you enjoy life.
4.Love is but a transient feeling ,and this feeling would fade with time and with one's mood.If your so called loved one leaves you, be patient,time will wash away your aches and sadness.
Don't over exaggerate the beauty and sweetness of love,
and don't over exaggerate the sadness of falling out of love.
5.A lot of successful people did not receive a good education,that does not mean that you can be successful by not studying hard!
whatever knowledge you gain is your weapon in life.
one can go from rags to riches, but some one has to start from rags!
6.I do not expect you to financially support me when I am old,neither would I financially support your whole life, my responsibility as as a supporter ends when you are grown up. After that, you decide whether you want to travel in public transport or in limousine,whether
you are rich or poor
7.You honour your words, but don't expect others to be so.You can be good to people, but dont expect others to be good to you. If you
don't understand this, you would end up with unnecessary trouble.
8.I have bought lotteries for umpteen years, but i could never strike any prize. that shows if you want to be rich,you have to work hard!
there is no free lunch!
9.No matter how much time I have with you,let's treasure the time we have together.We do not know if we would meet again in our next life.

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[www.keralites.net] HOW TO LIVE AND DIE

HOW TO LIVE AND DIE
How To Live & Die
I've often thought about what it is that makes people happy—what one has to do in order to achieve happiness.
1- First and foremost is good health. If you do not enjoy good health, you can never be happy. Any ailment, however trivial, will deduct something from your happiness.
2- Second, a healthy bank balance. It need not run into crores, but it should be enough to provide for comforts, and there should be something to spare for recreation—eating out, going to the movies, travel and holidays in the hills or by the sea. Shortage of money can be demoralising. Living on credit or borrowing is demeaning and lowers one in one's own eyes.
3- Third, your own home. Rented places can never give you the comfort or security of a home that is yours for keeps. If it has garden space, all the better. Plant your own trees and flowers, see them grow and blossom, and cultivate a sense of kinship with them.
4- Fourth, an understanding companion, be it your spouse or a friend. If you have too many misunderstandings, it robs you of your peace of mind. It is better to be divorced than to be quarrelling all the time.
5- Fifth, stop envying those who have done better than you in life—risen higher, made more money, or earned more fame. Envy can be corroding; avoid comparing yourself with others.
6- Sixth, do not allow people to descend on you for gossip. By the time you get rid of them, you will feel exhausted and poisoned by their gossip-mongering.
7- Seventh, cultivate a hobby or two that will fulfill you—gardening, reading, writing, painting, playing or listening to music. Going to clubs or parties to get free drinks, or to meet celebrities, is a criminal waste of time. It's important to concentrate on something that keeps you occupied meaningfully.
8- Eighth, every morning and evening devote 15 minutes to introspection. In the mornings, 10 minutes should be spent in keeping the mind absolutely still, and five listing the things you have to do that day. In the evenings, five minutes should be set aside to keep the mind still and 10 to go over the tasks you had intended to do.
9- Ninth, don't lose your temper. Try not to be short-tempered, or vengeful. Even when a friend has been rude, just move on.
10- Above all, when the time comes to go, one should go like a Person without any regret or grievance against anyone.

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[www.keralites.net] Service Above Self: For 29 Years, This Delhi Org Has Been Treating the Needy For Free! [2 Attachments]

Service Above Self: For 29 Years, This Delhi Org Has Been Treating the Needy For Free!

Kamaljeet Singh

This article is about an organisation formally established in 1992, called Veerji Ka Dera, in Delhi. This organisation comprising volunteers come together to provide medical assistance to the needy.

Kamaljeet Singh, one of the founders of this organisation.

It was Tirlochan Singh, who started this in 1989. When it began, the idea was to provide medical assistance and distribute food to all those who needed it.

Eventually, it took on a larger shape and is now being run by his sons, Brigadier Premjit Singh Panesar, who retired recently, and Kamaljeet Singh.

On an average, they nurse between 350 to 400 persons in need of medical assistance each day.

Speaking about some of the doctors who come each day to treat the patients, Kamaljeet says, "We have had doctors associated with us for over two decades, and it was only upon their demise that the association ended. As of now, we have Dr Tahir and Dr D C Aggarwal who come and help us."

The doctors tend to the patients sitting on the footpath. There are no fancy cubicles or clinics.

"The patients who come to us are mostly migrant workers and daily wage labourers from various parts. They cannot afford to go to big hospitals and clinics to get treated," says Kamaljeet.

The organisation also runs a 65-bed hospital at Dashrathpuri where destitute patients are treated.

The volunteers also get patients admitted to AIIMS and DDU hospital as and when needed.

Besides this, the volunteers can also be found at Vridh Ashram at Dashrathpuri near Janakpuri, near Rajdoot Hotel in Nizamuddin, at the Sai Baba Temple at Lodhi Road, Keshavpuram Mandi near Tilak Nagar, and Yamuna Pushta near ISBT, Kashmere Gate.

The doctors and volunteers associated with this organisation are providing service above self.

For more details, contact Kamaljeet Singh on +91-9810458567.

https://www.thebetterindia.com/148120/meet-doctors-in-old-delhi-who-treat-poor-free-of-cost-veerji-da-dera-service/

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