[www.keralites.net] Living Life Authentically!

 

Living Life Authentically!   Living life authentically is so important to being happy and content with who you are. You have the opportunity in life to create a path that is true to yourself and your visions and values. There are ten steps to be an authentic life.   Be true to yourself - Liberate yourself from the internal generated pressure   Evaluate Change - justify and rationalize your current behavior. we want to gain, in the current state. Choose your personal values and goals – and create a foundation for happiness and effectiveness. This require thinking about these goals and could mean realigning your life to be in a career   Honor yourself for your strengths and weakness alike that is who you are - aware of these and appreciating ourselves.   If you love,honor and tolerate yourself, you will be more tolerant of others. You will be able to handle stress easier and will be able to resolve problems better.   Seek Progress, Not Perfection - How you conduct yourself on the journey of life is truly your decision. It defined by your success and also by your failures. Learn from them and move towards your goals. Realize that you are not perfect.   We can learn from what went wrong, move on and prevent it from happening again. looking for solutions for preventing this in the future.   The important part about mistakes and failures is that we need to look, learn and then move one and forgive ourselves for not being perfect.   None us know what will happen to us tomorrow so it is important to live every day in a life that reflects our values and visions. Living life in your terms can create an environment that makes life a wonderful to be.   Be Open to Spontaneity and unforeseen opportunity – Trying to control every aspect of your life can get exhausting. Spontaneity can give you a great sense of freedom and joy. If your plans are too rigid it can create unnecessary pressures and stress.   It's important to have unstructured time and preserve some freedoms in your life. Uncertainty may feel uncomfortable but can be the gateway to growth and development.   Have a Support System - Creating a circle of people that accept you and love you for who you are is important to growth. Coaching can help to keep you on track to realize your goals and aspirations.   It is important to take responsibility for yourself. Make deliberate choices, act on the basis of judgment rather than habit or assumption.   The choice is yours to live your life. Live according to what will create the environment for happiness for us as individuals. The choice is yours.

 

 

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[www.keralites.net] 13 Common Mistakes Men Make While Wearing Accessories To Work!

 

13 Common Mistakes Men Make While Wearing Accessories To Work!   You don't need a stylist to tell you that fashion and Indian men do not go hand in hand. Most of us know as much about fashion, as chalk knows about cheese. When it comes to fashion, we often take inspiration from Bollywood, but that, until recently, didn't help either. Did you know that the concept of a stylist in a movie only came in the late 90s and the early 2000s? Most of the times, the hero of the film would just wear the clothes he already had at home. That explains Govinda. A lot.     That wasn't required.   So anyway, I was asked to pick out some horrendous mistakes men make while wearing accessories at work, and although I have no clue about fashion, I do know the difference between looking good, and looking Govinda.   1. That guy in the cafeteria who loves to flash his gold chain.   Very sexxaaay. If that's what the voice in your head says, then it's time to button up. It's not attractive. I'm not going to touch it to see how much it weighs. Women are not going to compare their chains with yours. They will refer to you as a creep though. Again, don't be that guy. Not sexxaaay.   2. That guy wearing clip-on earrings.   Do you realise that people can actually see you wearing that? It's not going unnoticed, it never will. If you really want to be that jackass who wears hideous earrings, at least be brave enough and get a real pair. Everybody knows your mother doesn't allow you to wear them in front of her, which is why it's just a clip-on. And whoever told you that the 50-rupee plastic stud looks like a diamond deserves a thank-you because he spotted the fool in you before others did. Don't be that guy! If you're not allowed to wear a 'diamond' stud, don't wear one!   3. Oh god, please don't be this guy!   *Can't comment*   4. That guy who has more rings than fingers!   They feel that wearing these precious stones will extend their lives, ward off evil, make them rich, stop hair loss, make them well informed, become sexy, make them smarter, transform them into Batman, help them lose weight, help them in their career, keep them thin, help with constipation, etc. Etc. Etc. Don't be that guy who needs to depend on the stars for anything to happen. It's your astrologer's wet dream, but unfortunately not anyone else's. Avoid.   5. That scrawny guy wearing a gold watch with a dial that's bigger than his face.   No, please, by all means, be that guy who wears the massive watch. We can't make out if you're the employee or the watch. Okay we know you're rich and successful, we know that's the biggest and the most expensive iPhone there is in the market but do you really want to look like an expensive hanger?   6. That bhai loving gai!   Being bracelet!   7. That guy who finds a cap the sexiest thing in a man.   This man generally wears only one kind of cap, and more often than not, it's the same one. Throughout the year. By the end of 3 months it starts smelling like something really disgusting died. By month six, it loses its colour. By a year nobody wants to be around it, and I'm not even talking about the cap. That guy might be doing it to cover a bald patch. But while the boiled, err, I mean bald, head might actually be hot for some, those caps work for none. Seriously don't be that guy. That guy just looks like a delivery boy of a start-up that never received any funding.   8. That guy who loves his brooch.   What are you, Prem? The only day you can wear it is on Independence Day, and even then it's not morally ethical to other people.   9. That guy flaunting the DNKY 'leather' belt with panache. Or trying to.   Everybody knows about 'that belt'. There are many kinds, but the easiest way to spot 'that belt' is by asking yourself three simple questions - Does that belt look so bad that you want to whiplash the man wearing it to death? Is that belt too ugly to be even used as a whip? Do you deserve to be banished by all of humanity if you're ever associated with that belt?   Now that we know how to identify 'that belt', don't be that guy wearing that belt.   10. That token Bengali guy with photochromic glasses.   Do not mean to generalise here when I say this, but there are way too many Bengalis who like photochromic glasses. Now since I'm a Bong myself, let me first clarify that this is not a style statement. Bongs are all about practicality and pragmatism, and while chasing these two, they end up looking like fools. If you have one pair of glasses that becomes a pair of sunglasses in the sun, then how is it bad? Correct. But the problem here is that it ends up becoming neither. They're just the 'I-haven't-made-up-my-mind-yet' glasses. You know that guy who never gets laid? It's because of these photochromic glasses.   11. That sales douche who loves to wear pointy shiny shoes.   Or in fact that guy in accounts who wears sports shoes with formals like this gentleman. C'mon you tell me.   12. That guy whose Ray-Bans can double up as a portable mirror for you.   I'm sure you like that guy in a way. A portable tinted mirror roaming about, there for you whenever you need to take a quick look at yourself. It's awesome for you, sometimes. But it's also terribly fake.   13. That guy whose phone covers make you question the existence of mobile phones.   We all have that one donkey who will get the most random, most unusable phone covers for his phone. What's worse is that most of these covers have been imported from Hong Kong, after that guy's 4-year-old niece picked it out for him. Do you really want to be in a meeting where that guy answers his phone with this? 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[www.keralites.net] A Wise Farmer!

 

A Wise Farmer!     Many years ago, in a poor Chinese village, there lived a farmer and his son.   His only material possession, apart from the land and a small hut, was a horse he had inherited from his father.   One day, the horse ran away, leaving the man with no animal with which to work the land.   His neighbours, who respected him for his honesty and diligence, went to his house to say how much they regretted his loss. He thanked them for their visit, but asked:   "How do you know that what happened was a misfortune in my life?"Someone muttered to a friend: "He obviously doesn't want to face facts, but let him think what he likes, after all, it's better than being sad about it."   And the neighbours went away again, pretending to agree with what he had said.   A week later, the horse returned to its stable, but it was not alone; it brought with it a beautiful mare for company.   The inhabitants of the village were thrilled when they heard the news, for only then did they understand the reply the man had given them, and they went back to the farmer's house to congratulate him on his good fortune.   "Instead of one horse, you've got two. Congratulations!" they said.   "Many thanks for your visit and for your solidarity," replied the farmer. "But how do you know that what happened was a blessing in my life?"   The neighbours were rather put out and decided that the man must be going mad, and, as they left, they said: "Doesn't the man realise that the horse is a gift from God?"   A month later, the farmer's son decided to break the mare in. However, the animal bucked wildly and threw the boy off; the boy fell awkwardly and broke his leg.   The neighbours returned to the farmer's house, bringing presents for the injured boy. The mayor of the village solemnly presented his condolences to the father, saying how sad they all were about what had occurred.   The man thanked them for their visit and for their kindness, but he asked:   "How do you know that what happened was a misfortune in my life?"   These words left everyone dumbstruck, because they were all quite sure that the son's accident was a real tragedy. As they left the farmer's house, they said to each other: "Now he really has gone mad; his only son could be left permanently crippled, and he's not sure whether the accident was a misfortune or not!"   A few months went by, and Japan declared war on China. The emperor's emissaries scoured the country for healthy young men to be sent to the front.   When they reached the village, they recruited all the young men, except the farmer's son, whose leg had not yet mended.   None of the young men came back alive. The son recovered, and the two horses produced foals that were all sold for a good price.   The farmer went to visit his neighbours to console and to help them, since they had always shown him such solidarity.   Whenever any of them complained, the farmer would say: "How do you know that what happened was a misfortune?"   If someone was overjoyed about something, he would ask: "How do you know that what happened was a blessing?"   And the people of the village came to understand that life has other meanings that go beyond mere appearance.

 

 

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[www.keralites.net] 07-12-2016 TODAY’S MESSAGE FROM TRICHY PRASANNAN SPELLING TEST: Do You Get These Confusing Words Mixed Up? [1 Attachment]

 

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