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02-03-2017  திருச்சி நா.பிரசன்னா-வின் இன்றைய குறுந்தகவல்
 
 
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* இதுவும் கடந்து போகும் * 🌼🌼🌼
 * This too will pass *
Either Good or Bad, nothing is Permanent.
 
🌼ஒரு ஊரில் மக்கள் மத்தியில் புத்தர் பேசத் தொடங்கினார்.
🌼ஒரு குரல் அவர் பேசுவதை இடைமறித்தது.
தொடர்ந்து புத்தரை நோக்கி,
"புத்தரே நாங்கள் உங்களைப் போன்ற எத்தனையோ ஞானிகளைச் சந்தித்தும், அவர்களது பிரசங்கங்களை கேட்டும் விட்டோம்.
 
🌼ஆனால் எங்களுக்கு எவ்வித நன்மையும் ஏற்படவில்லை.
இப்போதும் எங்களுக்கு பிரச்சனை இருக்கிறது.
 
🌼எங்களுக்கு மட்டுமல்ல இவ்வுலகில் உள்ள அனைவருக்குமே ஏதாவது ஒரு பிரச்சனை இருந்து கொண்டே தான் இருக்கிறது.
 
🌼அதனால் எல்லோருடைய சிக்கலும் தீரும்படியாக, அனைத்து மனிதர்களுடைய வாழ்விலும் பிரகாசம் தெரியும்படி மந்திரங்களைச் சொல்லித் தாருங்கள்.
 
🌼தேவையற்ற பிரசங்கம் வேண்டாம்.
 
🌼நாங்கள் மனப்பாடம் செய்து எல்லோருக்கும் சொல்லத்தக்க அளவில் சிறியதாக இருக்க வேண்டும். நாங்கள் அனைவரும் ஏற்றுக்கொள்ளும் படியான மந்திரத்தைச் சொல்லுங்கள்.
🌼உங்களைக் குருவாக ஏற்றுக்கொள்கிறோம்"
என்றது அக்குரல்.
 
🌼மௌனமாக சிரித்த புத்தர்,
"இதுவும் கடந்து போகும்"
என்று அழுத்தம் திருத்தமாகச் சொன்னார்.
 
🌼அந்த கணமே அக்கூட்டம் ஆடாமல் அசையாமல் அப்படியே அமர்ந்தது. புத்தரின் மந்திரத்தை மனசுக்ள் அசைபோட்டது.
 
🌼நன்றாகப் படித்திருந்தும் பணம் சம்பாதிக்க முடியாமல் தாழ்வு மனப்பான்மையால் உழன்று கொண்டிருந்த இளைஞனுக்கு தன்னம்பிக்கையைத் தந்தது அந்த வார்த்தை.
 
🌼"இதுவும் கடந்து போகும்" 🌼என்ற வார்த்தையால் என்னுடைய நிலை கண்டிப்பாக மாறிவிடும் என்ற நம்பிக்கை வந்துவிட்டது.
 
🌼இம்மந்திரத்தைத் தினந்தோறும் உச்சரித்து இன்னமும் எனக்கு வேண்டிய பலம் பெற்றுக்கொள்வேன்" என்று உரக்கச் சொல்லிவிட்டு அவ்விடத்தை விட்டு அகன்றான்.
 
🌼"இம்மந்திரத்தால் என்னுடைய நீண்ட கால நோய் கண்டிப்பாகத் தீர்ந்துவிடும். இனிமேலும் எனக்கு இந்நிலை தொடராது. இது மிகவும் நல்ல மந்திரம் என்று கூறிச் சென்றான்" நீண்ட நாட்களாக நோய்வாய்ப்பட்டிருந்தவன்.
 
🌼"இந்த பணம் தொடர்ந்து என்னுடன் இருக்காது என்பதைப் புத்தர் எனக்கு இம்மந்திரத்தின் மூலம் புரிய வைத்துவிட்டார். இனி இந்தப் பணத்தை என்ன செய்ய வேண்டும் என்பதை அறிந்துகொண்டேன்" என்று கூறிச் சென்றான் பணக்காரனாக இருந்தவன்.
 
🌼அடுத்து இருந்த அழகான பெண், "என்னுடைய அழகு எப்போதும் என்னுடன் வராது என்பதை இம்மந்திரம் எனக்குப் புரிய வைத்துவிட்டது" என்று கிளம்பினாள்.
 
🌼கடைசியாக, தினந்தோறும் உழைத்து ஓடாய்த் தேய்ந்த பெண்மணி கிளம்பும் போது, "இத்தனை நாளும் உழைத்துக் கொண்டிருக்கிறேன். மரணம் வரையிலும் உழைக்கத்தான் வேண்டியிருக்கும் என நினைத்துக் கொண்டிருந்தேன்.
ஆனால் இந்த மந்திரத்தின் மூலம் எனக்கு நம்பிக்கை வந்துவிட்டது. என்னுடைய நிலையும் மாறிவிடும்" என்று நம்பிக்கையுடன் சென்றார்..
 
🌼ஆம்,நண்பர்களே.,
தோல்விகள் தழுவும்போது
 
🌼 "இதுவும் கடந்து போகும்"🌼
என்பதை நினைவில் கொள்ளுங்கள்.சோர்ந்துவிட மாட்டீர்கள்.
 
🌼நல்ல மனிதர்களும்,நண்பர்களும் உங்கள் வாழ்வில் வரும்போது 'இதுவும் கடந்து போகும்" என்பதை நினைவில் கொள்ளுங்கள்.
 
🌼அவர்கள் இருக்கும்போது அவர்களை கௌரவிப்பீர்கள்..
அவர்கள் விலகும்போது பாதிப்படைய மாட்டீர்கள்.
 
🌼எத்தனையோ மனிதர்களை மாற்றிய இந்த உன்னத சொல்
உங்கள் வாழ்விலும் இனி ஒளி ஏற்றும்.
 
🌼"இதுவும் கடந்து போகும்" என்பதை உறுதியுடன் நம்புங்கள்.
🌼கண்டிப்பாக மாறிவிடும். தோல்வியைச் சந்திப்பவர்கள்,
நோயில் இருப்பவர்கள், சிக்கலில் மாட்டியவர்கள்,
திசை தெரியாமல் இருப்பவர்கள் ,
 
🌼அனைவரும் தினமும் இதை மனதில் சொல்லிக் கொண்டே இருங்கள்.🌼
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[www.keralites.net] : 02-03-2017 TODAY’S MESSAGE FROM TRICHY PRASANNAN ] Maha Prajna. Maha Karuna [5 Attachments]

 




 
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One day, a young boy came into the monastery and asked the Chief Monk, to give him some work and also food.
 
The Chief Monk asked him: What have you read? What work can you do? What do you know?
 
The boy replied: I have not read in school. I have no proficiency in any work excepting some stray jobs like washing food plates,
cleaning up the cottage etc., I do not know anything else.
 
The Chief Monk asked Are you sure you do not know anything else?
 
The young boy replied: Oh, yes, Sir, now I remember.
I can play good Chess
 
The Chief Monk said: Oh that's good. Now I shall test you in your game.
He asked another monk to come with chess board and coins and asked a table to be placed so that the game could start.
 
Before start of the game, the Chief Monk said: Now see, I have a sword on my hand. If any one is defeated, his nose will be severed
 
The boy became nervous. However, without any other way to go, he agreed.
 
The game started. Initially, the boy made some mistakes in moves. His position on the board became almost hopeless.
 
He then concentrated completely on the game and improved the position to a winning level. 
 
Then he looked at the monk sitting opposite and playing. He was not quite nervous but obviously disturbed a little.
 
The boy then thought, 
"I am a useless fellow in life. Nothing will change the world if I lose the game and lose my nose.
 
But this monk, is well read person, doing meditation and is sure to attain Buddha Hood Why should he lose?
 
So the young boy deliberately made a wrong move, so that the monk sitting opposite could take advantage and win the game !
 
The Chief Monk suddenly flashed his sword on the table. All the coins flew into different directions.
 
He then said: The game is over. Oh boy you are IN. You will be with us in the monastery hereafter.
 
The boy did not understand.
 
The Chief Monk explained: 
"I did not ask you to play chess to find out your caliber in the game. But I was looking for two essential qualities that are necessary for Self realization.
 
One is *Maha Prajna*. The Great Awareness. I found that in you. When your game became positionally bad, you put your entire concentration and attention on the game and improved your game.
This is Maha Prajna.
 
The second is *Maha Karuna* - The Great Compassion. I found that also in you. When your opponent was about to lose the game, you looked at him with great compassion and deliberately made a wrong mistake so that he could win.
 
These two qualities are adequate to do sadhana and make the life *Meaningful*.
*YOU ARE IN.*
 
Life isn't about winning or losing there is nothing to win and nothing to lose.
 
You can at best enjoy or suffer your limited time called *Life* but enjoyment or suffering is also only a figment of your imagination.
 
Going beyond enjoyment, suffering, winning or losing is the path that few choose to walk.
 
Win or Lose... lets have a great life.
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Listening!

 

Listening is one of the most important skills you should have. How well you listen has a major impact on your job, effectiveness, and on the quality of your relationships.

 

It takes a lot of concentration and determination to be an active listener. Be deliberate with your listening and remind yourself constantly that your goal is to truly hear what the other person is saying. Set aside all other thoughts and behaviors and concentrate on the message. Ask question, reflect, and paraphrase to ensure you understand the message. Use active listening to become a better communicator and to improve your work - productivity and relationships.

 

We remember 25-30% of what we hear. That means that when you talk to your boss, colleagues, customers or spouse for 10 minutes, they only really hear 2.5-3 minutes of the conversation. Same way when you are receiving directions or information, you aren't hearing the whole message either.

 

Clearly, listening is a skill that we can all benefit. By becoming a better listener, you will improve your productivity, as well as your ability to influence, persuade negotiate. You'll avoid conflict and misunderstandings.

 

Good communication skills require a high level of self-awareness. By understanding your personal style of communicating, you will go a long way towards creating good and lasting impressions with others in active listening you make a conscious effort to hear not only the words but, more importantly, to try and understand the total message of other person.

 

You cannot allow yourself to be distracted or to lose focus on what the other person is saying otherwise may be a very important message goes above head.

 

To enhance your listening skills, you need to let the other person know that you are listening to what he or she is saying. Acknowledgement can be something as simple as a nod of the head or a simple 'uh huh'. You aren't necessarily agreeing with the person, you are simply indicating that you are listening. Using body language and other signs to acknowledge you are listening also reminds you to pay attention and not let your mind wander.

 

You should also try to respond to the speaker in a way that will both encourage him or her to continue speaking, so that you can get the information if you need.

 

There are some key elements to Becoming an Active Listener.

 

Pay attention : - Give the speaker your undivided attention and acknowledge the message. - Look at the speaker directly. - Put aside distracting thoughts. Don't mentally prepare a negativity about speaker - Avoid being distracted by environmental factors. See body language of speaker. - Refrain from talking in a group setting.


Show that you are listening : - Use your own body language and gestures to convey your attention. - Nod occasionally. - Encourage the speaker to continue with small verbal comments like yes, and uh huh.


Defer judgment : - Interrupting is a waste of time. It frustrates the speaker and limits full understanding of the message. - Allow the speaker to finish. - Don't interrupt with counter-arguments.
Respond Appropriately : Active listening is a model for respect and understanding. You are gaining information and perspective. - Be honest in your response. - Give your opinions respectfully.

 

 


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[www.keralites.net] Fwd: Don’t Give Sorrow, Don’t Take Sorrow!!

 

 

Don't Give Sorrow, Don't Take Sorrow!

Don't give sorrow, don't take sorrow! The qualities that stop me giving sorrow are mercy, love and honesty. If someone has these, they will never even think of giving sorrow. I need to be merciful not to give sorrow and I need to be strong in order not to take sorrow. In fact, the moment you stop taking sorrow, you days of happiness have begun. These are your eyes, ears and lips – it is up to you whether to take sorrow or not.

The Search For Happiness And A Beautiful Relationship

Throughout history, human beings have desired and searched for two things, happiness and a perfect loveful and beautiful relationship.   It is interesting to realize that you cannot search for what, you have not already had or known. In other words, we search for these two things because inside us we have a deep subconscious memory of the original, perfect and eternal relationship with our Friend, Guide and Parent, the One remembered as God, Allah, Ishwar, etc.   It is only when we restore our relationship with this Being is that we can experience true happiness or bliss.   Bliss is the highest form of spiritual happiness we can experience.  It is experienced only when we are free of all attachment, when we no longer identify wrongly with anything physical and when our inner mental state is not dependent on anything or anyone.
 

At its highest level and in its purest state, our relationship with God is non-dependent and unconditional, and therefore blissful.   Deep within the soul, there is a memory of the bliss of this perfect union and it is this memory that inspires us to search for the perfect relationship, for the perfect happiness.   However, instead of seeking it at the spiritual level, we seek at the level of personality and body.   We search in those around us for the perfect partner - our soul mate. It is not incorrect to have worldly relationships, but there needs to be a deep realization inside each one of us that our true soul mate, is the One with whom we can have an ever-lasting, eternal relationship, the One with whom we have the deepest eternal bond (over a period of many births), the One from whom we will experience everlasting, eternal, unconditional attainments.

What happens when your anger button gets pushed?

Do you get all heated up? Do you let your emotions erupt on someone else?

As anger increases, perspective reasoning decreases; rather than adding fuel to the fire, often the best thing we can do is give ourselves a moment to recuperate, even if it's just briefly. Take a deep breath, then several more deep breaths. Come back to calm, consider how you want to respond.

When you have a moment, reflect on how you want to handle things, the next time your anger buttons get pushed.

Message for the day

Every change is a means to take one forward for those who are positive.

Thought to Ponder: For the one who is positive, change brings progress. Otherwise, most changes are seen as threats to our well-being. So, for everything that happens in my life, I need to see what positive outcome is inherent in it. This will help me be open to change in the right way.

Point to Practice: Today I will make a list of major changes in my life in the past 15 years or so. I will see what I have learnt from it. This will help me appreciate the fact that there is some beautiful outcome for everything that has happened. 

 

 


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