Sunday, 23 October 2016

[www.keralites.net] Enrich Your Own Life By Encouraging Your Child’s Individuality

 




Subject: Enrich Your Own Life By Encouraging Your Child's Individuality



 
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Subject:  Enrich Your Own Life By Encouraging Your Child's Individuality
 
 
Enrich Your Own Life By Encouraging Your Child's Individuality
 

Steps to Take with Your Kids

1. Recognize your child's individuality. Acknowledge that each child is a unique being. It will help protect you from assuming they're an extension of you.
2. Listen to your children. Pay attention to the aspirations of your children. Their words and actions reveal their interests.
3. Encourage exploration. Childhood is a time of discovery. Share their excitement about drama club or a soccer game. Visit the library together and plan memorable vacations. Buy a family membership at your local art or natural history museum.
4. Apply pressure wisely. Excessive force can push people in the opposite direction. If your son falls behind in Algebra, talk with the teacher rather than imposing unreasonable study hours.
5. Provide positive attention. Sometimes we admire our kids for rebelling a little. Even when their pranks are amusing, reinforce values about being responsible and considerate. Create a healthy balance between discipline and praise.
6. Send clear signals. We may also feel some sadness or resentment if someone else gets something we wanted for ourselves. Maybe you looked forward to becoming a doctor, but couldn't afford the tuition. Now it's your child who graduates from medical school. Celebrate their achievements. Congratulate yourself for giving them greater opportunities.
7. Watch for signs of burnout. Spending more time with friends may leave them refreshed and rejuvenated. Alternating between different sports can prevent boredom and overuse injuries.
8. Be supportive. Be encouraging even when your kids decline to follow in your footsteps. Each individual has their own preferences. Demonstrate your enthusiasm by providing the resources they need to cultivate whatever hobbies they choose. Share their struggles and commend them on their efforts.
Focus on your own development and give your children enough room to pursue their own dreams. You'll all be rewarded with closer family connections and more fulfilling lives.
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__,_._,_ Subject: [ChilledandRoasted] Positives in this world - Pictures to make you feel good and positive
 
 
 
MAKES YOUR HEART FEEL GOOD!!!
 
There are some precious moments captured in these pictures.  I'm reminded of a quote  from Charles Kuralt  "It does no harm just once in a while to acknowledge that the whole country isn't in flames, that there are people in the country besides politicians, entertainers and criminals." 
 
A little girl wipes away the tears of a man on TV.
 http://brightside.me/creativity-photography/15-inspirational-images-that-will-convince-you-to-make-the-world-a-better-place-194205/#image3162455
 
They got acquainted at the airport and decided to give each other a hug. 
http://brightside.me/creativity-photography/15-inspirational-images-that-will-convince-you-to-make-the-world-a-better-place-194205/#image3162505
 
A fireman puts an oxygen mask on a kitten that's just been saved from a burning building. 
http://brightside.me/creativity-photography/15-inspirational-images-that-will-convince-you-to-make-the-world-a-better-place-194205/#image3162555
 
A Marine runs alongside a boy who fell behind his group in a marathon. 
http://brightside.me/creativity-photography/15-inspirational-images-that-will-convince-you-to-make-the-world-a-better-place-194205/#image3162605
 
An 84-year-old lady was embarrassed to walk around a hospital in her nightgown, so her grandson put one on as well in support. 
http://brightside.me/creativity-photography/15-inspirational-images-that-will-convince-you-to-make-the-world-a-better-place-194205/#image3162655
 
The employees of a cleaning company put on superhero costumes to cheer up kids in the hospital. 
http://brightside.me/creativity-photography/15-inspirational-images-that-will-convince-you-to-make-the-world-a-better-place-194205/#image3162705
 
Once a week, this guy offers free haircuts to homeless people. 
http://brightside.me/creativity-photography/15-inspirational-images-that-will-convince-you-to-make-the-world-a-better-place-194205/#image3162755
 
Some surfers help a baby whale after it got lost. 
http://brightside.me/creativity-photography/15-inspirational-images-that-will-convince-you-to-make-the-world-a-better-place-194205/#image3162805
 
A young boar got stuck in a fence, and the whole family turned up to see him set free. 
http://brightside.me/creativity-photography/15-inspirational-images-that-will-convince-you-to-make-the-world-a-better-place-194205/#image3162855
 
A man gets help learning to put on his tie. 
http://brightside.me/creativity-photography/15-inspirational-images-that-will-convince-you-to-make-the-world-a-better-place-194205/#image3162905
 
Someone worked out how to feed several puppies at the same time. 
http://brightside.me/creativity-photography/15-inspirational-images-that-will-convince-you-to-make-the-world-a-better-place-194205/#image3162955
 
Two men save a drowning lamb. 
http://brightside.me/creativity-photography/15-inspirational-images-that-will-convince-you-to-make-the-world-a-better-place-194205/#image3163005
 
People band together to push against a train to help a woman who got stuck between the platform and the train. 
http://brightside.me/creativity-photography/15-inspirational-images-that-will-convince-you-to-make-the-world-a-better-place-194205/#image3163055
 
These guys took the time to give a drink to a dehydrated koala. 
http://brightside.me/creativity-photography/15-inspirational-images-that-will-convince-you-to-make-the-world-a-better-place-194205/#image3163105
 
And finally: just a child hugging his best friend. 
http://brightside.me/creativity-photography/15-inspirational-images-that-will-convince-you-to-make-the-world-a-better-place-194205/#image3163155
 Have A Great Day! God bless!
  
 

Posted by: Ravi Narasimhan <ravi.narasimhan.in@gmail.com>
 
 
 
Subject: Why you shouldn't use olive oil for massaging your baby:
 
 
 
Why you shouldn't use olive oil for massaging your baby: Parents are putting their children at risk of skin complaints such as eczema :- Childhood eczema now affects nearly one in three children 
 
They warned that many other baby skincare products in shops had only passed cosmetic tests and there was no clinical evidence proving they were safe.
 
Experts at the University of Manchester say parents are putting children at risk of developing eczema and other skin complaints by rubbing them with olive or sunflower oil because they believe the natural products are safe (file photo)
 
Baby massage has become hugely popular among parents who find that gently stroking their child is soothing and helps them bond. It has also been said to help stimulate babies' brains and improve their digestion.

Childhood eczema now affects nearly one in three children, compared to just one in 20 in the 1940s, with experts blaming the rise in environmental factors including parents' desire to use products on their children.
 
She added: 'To avoid harm to babies, until further research is available, those two topical oils – olive oil and sunflower oil – should not be recommended for treatment of dry skin or for baby massage.'
 
 
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[www.keralites.net] : Today Sri Devi Nama Tamil TV shows அதிர்ச்சி தரும் ஆராய்ச்சி முடிவுகள் !

 




Subject: : Today Sri Devi Nama Tamil TV shows அதிர்ச்சி தரும் ஆராய்ச்சி முடிவுகள் !

 
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💐 Amazing Reply 💐
    Teacher to Kid :      If you tell me  where is Lord Krishna,   I will reward you Rs. 100........?
     Ans:- Kid smiles  and Reply gently, I will give you Millions If you tell me Where He is Not.....!
      
    
🌹Hare Krishna 💐
 
 
 
Subject: Today Sri Devi Nama
 
Satya Gnananda Roopa

 
She who is personification of truth, knowledge and happiness.
 
Satya is truth, jñāna is knowledge and ānanda is bliss. She is the combination of truth, knowledge and bliss.
 
Taittirīya Upaniad says, satya jñāna anantha brahma. This refers to the Brahman. Truth, knowledge and infinity is the Brahman. Attributes of the Brahman is being described by the Upaniad. There is a difference between the saying of this Upaniad and this nāma. Upaniad says anantha (everything or infinity) and the nāma says ānanda (bliss). The compassionate form of the Divine Mother makes this difference. Bliss is one of the important qualities of Lalitāmbikā. When we reach the stage of ānanda (bliss), we tend to forget anantha (all other extraneous matters).
 
Bhadāraayaka Upaniad says that knowledge, bliss and Brahman are the same. Chāndogya Upaniad says "that which is infinite that is happiness."
 
This nāma says the nature of the nirgua Brahman. While the previous nāma discussed about the sagua Brahman, this nāma confirms Her as nirgua Brahman once again
N Jambunathan (Ex: REVL & IMPAL)
Rengarajapuram-Kodambakkam-Chennai-Mob:9176159004
 
 
Subject: Time Pass-Moral-Money is not everything

In 1923, nine of the wealthiest people in the world met at Chicago's Edge Water Beach Hotel.
Their combined wealth, it is estimated, exceeded the wealth of the Government of the United States at that time. These men certainly knew how to make a living and accumulate wealth. Attending the meeting were the following men:
1. The president of the largest steel company,
2. The president of the largest utility company,
3. The president of the largest gas company,
4. The president of the New York Stock Exchange,
5. The president of the Bank of International Settlements,
6. The greatest wheat speculator,
7. The greatest bear on Wall Street,
8. The head of the World's greatest monopoly &
9. A member of President Harding's cabinet.
That's a pretty impressive line-up of people by anyone's yardstick.
Yet, 25 years later, where were those nine industrial giants?
Let's examine what happened to them 25 years later.
1. The President of the then largest steel company (Bethlehem Steel Corp), Charles M Schwab, lived on borrowed capital for five years before he died bankrupt.
2. The President of the then largest gas company, Howard Hubson, went insane.
3. One of the greatest commodity traders (Wheat Speculator), Arthur Cutten, died insolvent.
4. The then President of the New York Stock Exchange, Richard Whitney, was sent to jail.
5. The member of the US President's Cabinet (the member of President Harding's cabinet), Albert Fall, was pardoned from jail just to be able to go home and die in peace.
6. The greatest "bear" on Wall Street, Jesse Livermore committed suicide.
7. The President of the then world's greatest monopoly, Ivar Krueger, committed suicide.
8. The President of the Bank of International Settlement, Leon Fraser, committed Suicide.
9. The president of the largest utility company, Samuel Insull, died penniless.
What they forgot was how to "make" life while they got busy making money!
Money in itself is not evil; it provides food for the hungry, medicine for the sick, clothes for the needy. Money is only a medium of exchange.
We need two kinds of education:
a) One that teaches us how to make a living,
and
b) One that teaches us how to live.
There are many of us who are so engrossed in our professional life that we neglect our family, health and social responsibilities.
If asked why we do this, we would reply that "We are doing it for our family".
Yet, our kids are sleeping when we leave home. They are sleeping when we come back home!! Twenty years later, we'll turn back, and they'll all be gone, to pursue their own dreams and their own lives.
Without water, a ship cannot move. The ship needs water, but if the water gets into the ship, the ship will face existential problems. What was once a means of living for the ship will now become a means of destruction.
Similarly we live in a time where earning is a necessity but let not the earning enter our hearts, for what was once a means of living will surely become a means of destruction for us as well.
So take a moment and ask yourself, "Has the water entered my ship?"
I hope not!
Hope the above story will drive all of us in a better direction in life.
''Alone I can 'Say' but
together we can 'talk'.
'Alone I can 'Enjoy' but
together we can
'Celebrate'.
'Alone I can 'Smile' but
together we can 'Laugh'.
That's the BEAUTY of
Human Relations.
We are nothing without
each other
Stay Connected!! Be inspired!! Make someone smile today.
Narayanan S
 
 
Subject:  Greatness of Dharbham / Dharbai

 The practices widely used by Indian Brahmins all over using a Holy Grass named Dharbham or Dharbai,  in all functions, auspicious or inauspicious, a performing person needs to wear a ring made of this Dharbham/ Pavithram. But many have lost the reason of why it is to be used in the first place. 

A Doctor named Sadhashiv Rao, took out a bunch of the Dharbham went straight to the clinic to take an x-ray of his palm,by covering his hand with the Dharbham. To his utter surprise,he found that the grass absorbed about 60% of the radiation! When the so powerful X-ray radiation can be absorbed by the Holy Grass, why can it not absorb the ill radiations spread over the atmosphere?
 

During the Eclipse time,these Dharbham are used to cover all food items to protect them from the harmful ultra violet radiation.

Whenever any function is held,firstly they perform a site-cleansing act known as "Sudhhi Punyaahavachanam".
While reciting the selective versus,they hold the Dharbham bunch in their hand and placing the tip point of it over the vessel containing water.
Thus the recited vibration values are absorbed by water in the vessel through the Dharbham.
 
They found that the Holy Grass known as Dharbham has the highest value in conducting the phonetic vibrations through its tip.

Later, they sprinkle the Holy water at every nook and corner of the place,where the function is held.
A Dharbham without the tip is considered of no value, as theconductor-type value is lost in it.


With Sanskrit phonetic sound and vibration,using the Dharbham increases its value.

It is really a marvel, that in those days of Vedic Era,the Sages & Saints of Hindu land used to control the Magnetic path disturbances,just by simply using this Dharbham!

Dharbam only grows naturally at selective places and available almost in every state in India.


If it is kept for a longer time, say for more than six months,then it loses it value and the power of absorbing the radiation or magnetic path control values.

Dharbham cannot just be plucked straight or cut on any day; There is a specific Slokha that is to be recited before cutting it.
That too it can be cut only on the day next to Full Moon - known as Krishna Paksha Pradamai.

A Dharbham without its tip portion is not to be used for making a Ring like item known as
"Pavithram".
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Thanks to Mr.V.Soman, my RECT 72 batch mate for posting this useful info on Dharbham.
- SIVA

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Subject: Rice Is So Surprising! Here Are 7 Alternative Uses
 
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Subject: Shocking research results of Tamil TV shows !!!

 
அதிர்ச்சி தரும் ஆராய்ச்சி முடிவுகள் !
 
Like in all issues, there are a few exceptions like 
" Seethaiyin Raman, Hanuman, Karnan, Ramanujar , Oru Varthai Oru Latcham " etc. ,which are very good to watch 
TV serials, by all. 
So, think good, do good and watch good too.
- SIVA

டிவி நாடகங்களில் வரும் அழுகைகள்,

குமுறல்கள், ஒப்பாரி, உரக்கக் கத்திப் பேசுதல்,

சோக மற்றும் இழவு இசைகள்

உங்கள் வீட்டில் இருக்கும்

லக்ஷ்மி கடாக்ஷத்தைச் சீர்குலைத்து கெடுத்துவிடும்.

இதனால் வீட்டில் பணம் தாங்காமல் போகும்,

வீண் செலவுகள் ஏற்படும்.

அது மட்டுமின்றி உங்கள் உடல் நலத்தையும் சீரழித்துவிடும்.

இதனால் தலைவலி, ரத்த அழுத்தம், இதய கோளாறுகள்,  மூளை மற்றும் நரம்பியல் சம்பந்தமான பிரச்சனைகள் வரும்...

முக்கியமாக பிறரை எப்படிக் கெடுப்பது, அழிப்பது, துன்புறுத்துவது,

மாமியார் மருமகள் சண்டை,

சந்தேகப்படுவது, சகுனி வேலை பார்ப்பது,

பிறர் தொழிலை எப்படி கெடுப்பது என்பதே காண்பிக்கப்பட்டு மக்களுக்கு பழக்குவிக்கப்படுகிறது .

சுய லாபத்துக்காக இப்படி மக்களைச் சீரழிப்பதில்  டிவி சீரியல்கள்  முதலிடம் வகிக்கிறது.

தயவுசெய்து மக்களே,

இது போன்ற கேவலமான நாடகங்களைப்  புறக்கணியுங்கள்..🙏​😳

நமது செயல் மட்டும் இல்லை எண்ணங்களும் நமது கர்மா தான்👍​👆​

எனவே உங்கள் விலைமத்ப்பில்லா ஓய்வு நேரத்தை  அன்பான குழந்தைகள் மற்றும் வீட்டில் உள்ள

கணவன், மனைவி, பெரியவர்களோடும்

நல்ல புத்தகங்களைப் படிப்பதிலும்

பிறருக்கு நன்மை செய்யும் நல்ல

காரியங்களிலும் ஈடுபடுங்கள்🙏​👌​

இல்லையேல் வரும் பலன்களை

நல்லதோ கெட்டதோ

நீங்கள் தான் அவற்றை

உருவாக்கினீர்கள் என்பதை உணர்ந்து

அனுபவிக்க தயாராகுங்கள்.....👍​🙏​😱

அல்லதை விடுத்து நண்பர்களே

நல்லதை பாருங்கள் , கேளுங்கள்

பேசுங்கள், சிந்தியுங்கள்

வாழ்வில் எல்லாம் நல்லதாய்

நடக்கும் ........👏​🙏​

வாழ்க வளமுடன் & நலமுடன் 🌷

தீதும் நன்றும் பிறர் தர வாரா

நம்மை சுற்று நடப்பனவற்றுக்கு

நாமே பொறுப்பு........😄

எண்ணம் போல் வாழ்க்கை👏​👌​👍​👆​🙏​
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As received from Mr.V.Soman, my RECT 72 batch mate .
- SIVA

Posted by: Soman <vsoman30@yahoo.com>
 


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