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All About Relationship- 30 Quotes

1.   In life you'll realize there is a purpose for everyone you meet.  Some will test you, some will use you, and some will teach you.  But most importantly, some will bring out the best in you.

2.   Keep people in your life who truly love you, motivate you, encourage you, enhance you, and make you happy.  If you know people who do none of these things, let them go.

3.   Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring – all of which have the potential to turn a life around.

4.   The most beautiful thing is to see a person you love smiling.  And even more beautiful is knowing that you are the reason behind it.

5.   Choose your relationships wisely.  It's better to be alone than to be in bad company.

6.   Being alone does not mean you are lonely, and being lonely does not mean you are alone.

7.   Fall in love when you're ready, not when you're lonely.

8.   Love means giving someone the chance to hurt you, but trusting them not to.

9.   You know you've found true love when you catch yourself falling in love with the same person over and over again.

10.   Don't wait for the right person to come into your life.  Rather, be the right person to come to someone's life.

11.   The one who is meant for you encourages you to be your best, but still loves and accepts you at your worst.

12.   Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.

13.  Some relationships are like glass.  It's better to leave it broken, than to hurt yourself more by trying to put it back together.

14.  Just because one person doesn't seem to care for you, doesn't mean you should forget about everyone else who does.

15.  Someone else doesn't have to be wrong for you to be right.

16.   It is okay to be angry.  It is never okay to be cruel.

17.  Never do something permanently foolish just because you are temporarily upset.

18.  Silence is often the loudest cry.  Pay attention to those you care about.

19.  We don't always need advice.  Sometimes all we need is a hand to hold, an ear to listen, and a heart to understand.

20.   It's not so much what you say that counts, it' how you make people feel.

21.  A silent hug means a thousand words to the unhappy heart.

22.  Don't mess with someone's feelings just because you're unsure of yours.

23.  True happiness comes from within, not from someone else.  Don't make the mistake of waiting on someone or something to come along and make you happy.

24.  Don't choose the one who is beautiful to the world, choose the one who makes your world beautiful.

25.  If you feel like your ship is sinking, it might be a good time to throw out the stuff that's been weighing it down

26.  Let go of people who bring you down, and surround yourself with those who bring out the best in you.

27.   Just because it didn't last forever, doesn't mean it wasn't worth your while.

28.  Say what you mean and mean what you say.  Don't expect others to read your mind, and don't play games with their heads and hearts.  Don't tell half-truths and expect people to trust you when the full truth comes out.  Half-truths are no better than lies.  And don't ignore someone you care about, because lack of concern hurts more than angry words.

29.   Lies help no one in the long run.  So… 1) Don't say "I love you" if you don't mean it. 2) Don't say "I understand" if you have no clue. 3) Don't say "I'm sorry" if you're not. 4) Be honest with yourself and your loved ones.

30.   Tell the truth, or eventually someone will tell it for you.

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[www.keralites.net] 10 Painful Truths

 

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10 PAINFULLY OBVIOUS TRUTHS EVERYONE FORGETS TOO SOON

You know how you can hear something a hundred times in a hundred different ways before it finally gets through to you?  The ten truths listed below fall firmly into that category – life lessons that many of us likely learned years ago, and have been reminded of ever since, but for whatever reason, haven't fully grasped.

This, my friends, is my attempt at helping all of us, myself included, "get it" and "remember it" once and for all…

 

1.  THE AVERAGE HUMAN LIFE IS RELATIVELY SHORT

We know deep down that life is short, and that death will happen to all of us eventually, and yet we are infinitely surprised when it happens to someone we know.  It's like walking up a flight of stairs with a distracted mind, and misjudging the final step.  You expected there to be one more stair than there is, and so you find yourself off balance for a moment, before your mind shifts back to the present moment and how the world really is.

LIVE your life TODAY!  Don't ignore death, but don't be afraid of it either.  Be afraid of a life you never lived because you were too afraid to take action.  Death is not the greatest loss in life.  The greatest loss is what dies inside you while you're still alive.8  Be bold.  Be courageous.  Be scared to death, and then take the next step anyway.

 

2. YOU LIVE THE LIFE YOU CREATE FOR YOURSELF

Your life is yours alone.  Others can try to persuade you, but they can't decide for you.  They can walk with you, but not in your shoes.  So make sure the path you decide to walk aligns with your own intuition and desires, and don't be scared to switch paths or pave a new one when it makes sense.

Remember, it's always better to be at the bottom of the ladder you want to climb t8han the top of the one you don't.  Be productive and patient.  And realize that patience is not about waiting, but the ability to keep a good attitude while working hard for what you believe in.  This is your life, and it is made up entirely of your choices.  May your actions speak louder than your words.  May your life preach louder than your lips.  May your success be your noise in the end.

And if life only teaches you one thing, let it be that taking a passionate leap is always worth it.  Even if you have no idea where you're going to land, be brave enough to step up to the edge of the unknown, and listen to your heart.

 

3.  BEING BUSY DOES NOT MEAN BEING PRODUCTIVE

Busyness isn't a virtue, nor is it something to respect.  Though we all have seasons of crazy schedules, very few of us have a legitimate need to be busy ALL the time.  We simply don't know how to live within our means, prioritize properly, and say no when we should.

Being busy rarely equates to productivity these days.  Just take a quick look around.  Busy people outnumber productive people by a wide margin.  Busy people are rushing all over the place, and running late half of the time.  They're heading to work, conferences, meetings, social engagements, etc.  They barely have enough free time for family get-togethers and they rarely get enough sleep.  Yet, emails are shooting out of their smart phones like machine gun bullets, and their day planners are jammed to the brim with obligations.  Their busy schedule gives them an elevated sense of importance.  But it's all an illusion.  They're like hamsters running on a wheel.

Though being busy can make us feel more alive than anything else for a moment, the sensation is not sustainable long term.  We will inevitably, whether tomorrow or on our deathbed, come to wish that we spent less time in the buzz of busyness and more time actually living a purposeful life.

 

4.  SOME KIND OF FAILURE  ALWAYS OCCURS BEFORE SUCCESS

Most mistakes are unavoidable.  Learn to forgive yourself.  It's not a problem to make them.  It's only a problem if you never learn from them.

If you're too afraid of failure, you can't possibly do what needs to be done to be successful.6  The solution to this problem is making friends with failure.  You want to know the difference between a master and a beginner?  The master has failed more times than the beginner has even tried.  Behind every great piece of art is a thousand failed attempts to make it, but these attempts are simply never shown to us.

Bottom line:  Just because it's not happening now, doesn't mean it never will.  Sometimes things have to go very wrong before they can be right.  (Read The Success Principles.)

 

5.  THINKING AND DOING ARE TWO VERY DIFFERENT THINGS

Success never comes to look for you while you wait around thinking about it.

You are what you do, not what you say you'll do.  Knowledge is basically useless without action.  Good things don't come to those who wait; they come to those who work on meaningful goals.  Ask yourself what's really important and then have the courage to build your life around your answer.

And remember, if you wait until you feel 100% ready to begin, you'll likely be waiting the rest of your life.3

 

6.  YOU DON'T HAVE TO WAIT FOR AN APOLOGY TO FORGIVE

Life gets much easier when you learn to accept all the apologies you never got.  The key is to be thankful for every experience – positive or negative.  It's taking a step back and saying, "Thank you for the lesson."  It's realizing that grudges from the past are a perfect waste of today's happiness, and that holding one is like letting unwanted company live rent free in your head.

Forgiveness is a promise – one you want to keep.  When you forgive someone you are making a promise not to hold the unchangeable past against your present self.  It has nothing to do with freeing a criminal of his or her crime, and everything to do with freeing yourself of the burden of being an eternal victim.

 

7.  SOME PEOPLE ARE SIMPLY THE WRONG MATCH FOR YOU

You will only ever be as great as the people you surround yourself with, so be brave enough to let go of those who keep bringing you down.  You shouldn't force connections with people who constantly make you feel less than amazing.

If someone makes you feel uncomfortable and insecure every time you're with them, for whatever reason, they're probably not close friend material.  If they make you feel like you can't be yourself, or if they make you "less than" in any way, don't pursue a connection with them.  If you feel emotionally drained after hanging out with them or get a small hit of anxiety when you are reminded of them, listen to your intuition.  There are so many "right people" for you, who energize you and inspire you to be your best self.  It makes no sense to force it with people who are the wrong match for you.

 

8.  IT'S NOT OTHER PEOPLE'S JOB TO LOVE YOU; IT'S YOURS

It's important to be nice to others, but it's even more important to be nice to yourself.  You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.  So make sure you don't start seeing yourself through the eyes of those who don't value you.  Know your worth, even if they don't.

Today, let someone love you just the way you are – as flawed as you might be, as unattractive as you sometimes feel, and as incomplete as you think you are.  Yes, let someone love you despite all of this, and let that someone be YOU.  (Read Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It.)

 

9. WHAT YOU OWN IS NOT WHO YOU ARE

Stuff really is just stuff, and it has absolutely no bearing on who you are as a person.  Most of us can make do with much less than we think we need.  That's a valuable reminder, especially in a hugely consumer-driven culture that focuses more on material things than meaningful connections and experiences.

You have to create your own culture.  Don't watch too much TV, don't read every fashion magazine, and don't read too many newspapers.  Find the strength to fill your time with meaningful experiences.  The space and time you are occupying at this very moment is LIFE, and if you're worrying about Kim Kardashian or Miley Cyrus (most obvious examples) or some other famous face, then you are disempowered.  You're giving your life away to marketing and media trickery, which is created by big companies to ultimately motivate you to want to dress a certain way, look a certain way, and be a certain way.  This is tragic, this kind of thinking.  What is real is YOU and your friends and your family, your loves, your highs, your hopes, your plans, your fears, etc.

Too often we're told that we're not important, we're just peripheral to what is.  "Get a degree, get a job, get a car, get a house, and keep on getting."  And it's sad, because someday you'll wake up and realize you've been tricked.  And all you'll want then is to reclaim your mind by getting it out of the hands of manipulative media that wants to turn you into the perfect consumer that buys everything that isn't needed to impress everyone that isn't important. It's a hamster wheel, think about it.

 

10.  EVERYTHING CHANGES, EVERY SECOND

Embrace change and realize it happens for a reason.  It won't always be obvious at first, but in the end it will be worth it.

What you have today may become what you had by tomorrow.  You never know.  Things change, often spontaneously.  People and circumstances come and go.  Life doesn't stop for anybody.  It moves rapidly and rushes from calm to chaos in a matter of seconds, and happens like this to people every day.  It's likely happening to someone nearby right now.

Sometimes the shortest split second in time changes the direction of our lives.  A seemingly innocuous decision rattles our whole world like a meteorite striking Earth.  Entire lives have been swiveled and flipped upside down, for better or worse, on the strength of an unpredictable event.  And these events are always happening to someone else right this second.

However good or bad a situation is now, it will change.  That's the one thing you can count on.  So when life is good, enjoy it.  Don't go looking for something better every second.  Happiness never comes to those who don't appreciate what they have while they have it.

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[www.keralites.net] Tell Yourself

 

All About Relationship- 30 Quotes

1.   In life you'll realize there is a purpose for everyone you meet.  Some will test you, some will use you, and some will teach you.  But most importantly, some will bring out the best in you.

2.   Keep people in your life who truly love you, motivate you, encourage you, enhance you, and make you happy.  If you know people who do none of these things, let them go.

3.   Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring – all of which have the potential to turn a life around.

4.   The most beautiful thing is to see a person you love smiling.  And even more beautiful is knowing that you are the reason behind it.

5.   Choose your relationships wisely.  It's better to be alone than to be in bad company.

6.   Being alone does not mean you are lonely, and being lonely does not mean you are alone.

7.   Fall in love when you're ready, not when you're lonely.

8.   Love means giving someone the chance to hurt you, but trusting them not to.

9.   You know you've found true love when you catch yourself falling in love with the same person over and over again.

10.   Don't wait for the right person to come into your life.  Rather, be the right person to come to someone's life.

11.   The one who is meant for you encourages you to be your best, but still loves and accepts you at your worst.

12.   Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.

13.  Some relationships are like glass.  It's better to leave it broken, than to hurt yourself more by trying to put it back together.

14.  Just because one person doesn't seem to care for you, doesn't mean you should forget about everyone else who does.

15.  Someone else doesn't have to be wrong for you to be right.

16.   It is okay to be angry.  It is never okay to be cruel.

17.  Never do something permanently foolish just because you are temporarily upset.

18.  Silence is often the loudest cry.  Pay attention to those you care about.

19.  We don't always need advice.  Sometimes all we need is a hand to hold, an ear to listen, and a heart to understand.

20.   It's not so much what you say that counts, it' how you make people feel.

21.  A silent hug means a thousand words to the unhappy heart.

22.  Don't mess with someone's feelings just because you're unsure of yours.

23.  True happiness comes from within, not from someone else.  Don't make the mistake of waiting on someone or something to come along and make you happy.

24.  Don't choose the one who is beautiful to the world, choose the one who makes your world beautiful.

25.  If you feel like your ship is sinking, it might be a good time to throw out the stuff that's been weighing it down

26.  Let go of people who bring you down, and surround yourself with those who bring out the best in you.

27.   Just because it didn't last forever, doesn't mean it wasn't worth your while.

28.  Say what you mean and mean what you say.  Don't expect others to read your mind, and don't play games with their heads and hearts.  Don't tell half-truths and expect people to trust you when the full truth comes out.  Half-truths are no better than lies.  And don't ignore someone you care about, because lack of concern hurts more than angry words.

29.   Lies help no one in the long run.  So… 1) Don't say "I love you" if you don't mean it. 2) Don't say "I understand" if you have no clue. 3) Don't say "I'm sorry" if you're not. 4) Be honest with yourself and your loved ones.

30.   Tell the truth, or eventually someone will tell it for you.
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