Tuesday, 28 April 2015

[www.keralites.net] A poem dedicated to the man I fell in love with

 


 

A poem dedicated to the man I fell in love with. The man who became my soul mate. The best father I know. For life without him would not be worth living

First Comes Love...

© Dunia Silva

 

It dissolved everything I was 
and made me into the object of your affections. 
I remember looking in your eyes at the beginning 
and thinking how can things get any better? 

 

 

 

Little did I know that God had a roller coaster ride 
in mind for the two of us. It has been 
so much fun getting to know who you are, 
and yet, I wasn't expecting to fall in love so easily. 

 

 

 

I gave myself to you completely and without regrets. 
We were a dynamic couple to be envied. 
We had the kind of love that fairy tales are truly made of. 
I accepted you, and you accepted me blindly. 

 
Then comes marriage.... 

 

 

 

My dream come true. 
A night to really be remembered. You looked so handsome, 
waiting for me at the end of the altar, 
I found myself smiling, you took my breath away. 

 

 

 

We made it through so many obstacles, 
so many hurdles we avoided and had to run through. 
I felt so lucky to have you to share my life with, 
because I didn't think I could live without you. 

 
The came baby sitting in a carriage.... 

 

 

 

Just when I thought life couldn't possibly get better, 
the Lord blessed us with an angel. 
She could not be more heaven sent 
in every aspect of the word. 

 

 

 

I didn't know a love so true so big so undeniable 
as the one I felt for you and her. 
I found that I saw you in a new light 
so tender and soft holding our daughter in your arms. 

 

 

 

But with our wonderful life so complete, 
problems were soon sure to come. 
Its been a detachment and a distance building up 
but never a lack of love and adoration. 

 

 

 

The build up of tension and stress 
had put our love to the test. Its sad to see our life 
having so many ups and downs. 
But through our faith and courage we have still stayed strong. 

 

 

 

I know we don't share the joys we used to share before 
and that we don't have the time to spend together like before, 
Please remember that we still need to work on us, 
that we should never be invisible to one another. 

 

 

 

Don't let me turn away from you when mad, 
Don't let me lose faith in what we have 
Still remain the man I fell in love with, 
and ill remain the woman I vowed id be. 

 

 

 

I know for a fact that I do love you and I'm with you till the end 
No matter what comes between us 
well move the rocks in the way, 
and overcome any obstacles, 
because after all.... 

 
First comes love..... 

 


 
First Comes Love...

 

Lamhe judai ke bekarar kerte hain,

Haalat mere mujhe laachar karte hain,

Aankhe meri pad lo kabhi,

Ham khud kaise kahe ki aapse pyaar karte hain.

Mere pyaar ka hisaab jo lagaoge,

To mere pyar ko behisaab paoge,

Paani ke bulbule sa hai mera pyar,

Zara si thes lagi to dhundte rehjaoge.

When u mix rice in milk u call it kheer.

When u mix vinegar in milk u call it paneer..

When u mix a sweet person like me in ur life ..

U call it takdeer.


 

Yoon to zindagi ki rahoon main log hazar milengay

Hum kya hum say achy hazar milengay

Lekin bhool na jana bhool se bhi hamain

Kyoon k hum kahan apko bar bar milengay

Dur na jaaya karo dil tadap jaata hai

Tere hi khayalon me din guzar jaata hai

Aaj puchha hai dil ne ek sawal tumse

Kya dur rehker tumko bhi hamara khayal ata hai

Khamosh raat ke pehlu me sitare nahi hote,

In rukhi aankho me rangin nazare na hote.

Hum bhi na karte parwah,

Agar aap itne pyare na hote

Apke aane se zindagi kitni khubsoorat hai,

Dil me basayi hai jo woh apki hi surat hai,

Dur jaana nahi humse kabhi bhulker bhi,

Hume har kadam per aapki zarurat hai.

Badalna aata nahi humko mousmo ki tarah

Har ek roop main tera intezaar karte hain

Na tum samet sakogi jise qayamat tak

Kasam tumhari tumhe itna pyar karte hain.

If u touch n feel its desire.


 


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[www.keralites.net] : Castor Oil Helped Prevent Knee Surgery

 

Castor Oil is a life-saver for joints, especially knees.
(See below a true story narrated by a few users)

A few years ago, my husband hurt/twisted his knee while getting in and out of a huge truck.
The pain only increased as time went by, so we went to urgent care.
After x-rays, etc., my husband was told that it really required surgery to repair and fix his knee, which was NOT in our budget at the time.
What to do?
We had already heard about using castor oil on joints from a couple of doctors (M.D.) with knowledge in natural remedies, also.
According to instructions, I massaged castor oil into his whole knee area; then I wrapped the whole area with an old cloth (that I would continue to keep stored/sealed in a zippy-bag, for re-use) and with saran-type-wrap, because castor oil is both oily and staining–it will not wash out.
After that, we put a heating pad on the area (SET ON LOW heat) for an hour.
We kept the wrappings on his knee over night.

I had to beg my husband to let me apply the castor oil and wrappings on the first night.
The second night, he reminded me to fix up his knee again.
Night number three, he did it himself, on his own.
He woke up the next morning, with his knee feeling great.
If/when he or I ever hurt any joint, both of us know to rub with the castor oil, wrap with a cloth, cover for a while, and get relief.
Heat does not have to be applied, but it helps.
There is nothing like castor oil for knees and joints.
It's messy, but who cares, if it helps prevent or STOP the need for surgery and if it stops pain?

Here are some other castor oil stories:
"Whenever my children hurt themselves, the first thing I reached for was the castor oil.
My mother-in-law's uncle was a boxer and castor oil was what they used after a boxing match to prevent hematomas and bruising.
It works like a charm. It has been passed down as a remedy in my family for many years."
LCF
"I rub castor oil on my aches and pains, and it helps a lot.
Some people make castor oil packs.
I used them when the doctors said I had liver cancer.
We don't know what happened to the liver cancer! It is gone.
I use castor oil every chance I get. I hope it works for others! Take care!!"
DG
"Used castor oil in Lacrosse for years.
Put on castor oil and wrapped it with plastic wrap, bruise would at times be gone the next day.
"Castor Oil DEFINITELY WORKS!!!
I am a huge bruiser, esp. since I am borderline anaemic and whenever I bruise and I apply castor oil right away directly to bruise and rub it in a bit,
it significantly minimizes the bruise right away and/or decreases the severity or # of days it shows! I love it!"
MM
"I had warts on my hands when I was younger.
Tried the burning/freezing remedies and nothing worked as well as my mother's remedy of applying castor oil to the wart and covering with a band aid.
This got rid of the warts completely.
I forget how long it took or how often I had to reapply, but they never came back."
VM
"Castor oil completely eliminated a wart that I had tried to eliminate for over twenty years.
It did not even leave a scar!
I applied the oil on the wart after showering and at bedtime and covered it with a bandage. I kept at it until it was gone, maybe two months."
Anne

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[www.keralites.net] 27 Email Etiquette Tips for Professionals

 


 

 

 media and improvements in text messaging, email is  still the mode of communication that continues to prevail in the professional realm. The ability to give direction, put out fires, and more without being face-to-face has enabled many businesses to use email as a productivity tool. However, there are times when professionalism goes out of the window, and etiquette rules are forgotten. Today, we will take a look at 27 email etiquette tips for business professionals.
 

 

1. Greeting

 
s and Send-offs

 

I never start an email with the contents. An email always begins with a sound introduction or with the recipient's name. This will, in the beginning, let them know to whom they are speaking with. Whe
 
n you begin by acknowledging them by name (e.g. Hello, John Doe), you will let them know whom you intend on talking with. When you are done with an email, always finish by saying "Thanks" or "Cheers", to practice good etiquette and respect.
 

2. Know When to Call

Not all communication has to occur through email. Once conversation begins to mention specifics, it may be wise to schedule a phone call—this can prevent misunderstandings and can even expedite your correspondence. It is also respectful to pick up the phone when a meeting, scheduled by email, is cancelled.

3. Mind Your Punctuation

Professionalism involves knowing how to mind your punctuation. In a standard email correspondence, you should use periods and question marks about 95% of the time. Leave exclamation points to when your conversation is light-hearted, and you're familiar with the recipient.

4. The Clock is Ticking

When dealing with business, never keep them waiting. As the saying goes, "time is money". You should never let a recipient wait more than two days for your reply. Just like a phone call, waiting on an email can hold up progress on whatever project you are attempting to establish. After all, isn't that why you're emailing and not using snail mail?

5. Write it Right

Grammar and spelling should be two considerations when emailing in a professional environment. Even though the content is the star of the email, ensuring that your grammar is in check allows the business acquaintance to know that you are taking the conversation seriously. Most email clients have spelling and grammar checks, so use them!

6. Consider Company Culture

Let's be honest—while grammar and tone should be professional, we must still consider the companies that we are contacting. Inner business emails between more relaxed companies will of course be a bit different from, let's say, the White House. While minding your grammar, continue to give off an approachable vibe while emailing.

7. Engineer the Perfect Subject Line

The first thing your recipient sees is the subject line. Frankly, they will discern the importance of an email by a subject line before reading its contents. Make sure you leave a great impression by being mindful of capitalization, being concise, and to the point.

8. Reply vs. Reply-All

Nothing is more embarrassing than sending a mass email that was intended for only one recipient. This is the result of an email that began with multiple recipients. When replying, you will have the option to "Reply"—which emails the sender—or "Reply-All", which sends your message to everyone the original message was sent to. Double check before sending, or you'll be sorry.

9. Consider The Privacy of Others

There will be instances when you'll have to send business emails to multiple recipients who may not know each other. The recipient's email address is added to the "To:" section in average emails, but in multiple recipient emails, you should add the addresses to the "BCC" or Blind Carbon Copy section, to prevent others from viewing recipient addresses.

10. Tailor a Signature

Unlike a greeting or send-off, an email signature is automatically added to the bottom of a message, where you can add a small biography and contact information. This doesn't replace a quality greeting, but it does allow a new acquaintance to learn more about you and to know where to get in contact with you.

11. Go in Vacation Mode

Several times a year, during vacation, I usually find myself separated from my email. As seen in tip #4, time is of the essence, and it's rude to leave an email in your inbox unanswered. To alert individuals of my absence, I add an auto-responder (through Gmail, but also available on other clients) mentioning of why I'm gone and when I will return.

12.  Be Mindful of Links

Hackers have found ways to add viruses and malware to attachments and links. When forwarding emails, ensure that the links and attachments are safe. Also, reduce the number of chain messages you forward and never send any from an unknown recipient.

13. Create a TL:DR Summary

TL:DR is an acronym standing for "Too long, didn't read". It's quite blunt and is the case for many busy business acquaintances who simply are too busy to read long email conversations. For this reason, when forwarding or periodically when replying to conversations, summarize previous points in bullets to keep recipients up-to-speed on email contents.

14. Job Search Tip: Resume and Cover Letter

When searching for a job, email etiquette is of the utmost importance. When replying to a job board, always ensure that you include your resume and cover letter. By default, these should be attachments unless they explicitly are against them.

15. Ask Before Attaching

The reason companies don't like large attachments is because companies are given a specified storage space they pay for. Your large attachment eats up their storage allowance. Before sending a large attachment, or multiple ones, always ask for permission from the recipient.

16. When is Irony Appropriate?

Irony is a popular form of comedy for most people. However, in a business setting, you should shy away from it. Irony in any written form can be misunderstood at best, and at worst be taken as offensive. Save the irony for emails within your company.

17. Rethink Your Font

A company email isn't a PowerPoint presentation from your sixth grade English project: leave the fancy fonts for another time. Not only does it come off as unprofessional, some companies may not have the email clients that can present such fonts. Besides, who wants to read Edwardian Script font anyway?
Professional Fonts to Use
  • Times New Roman
  • Georgia
  • Veranda
  • Arial
  • Book Antiqua
  • Calibri

18. Documents Open for All

Obscure file types can prevent companies from being able to open the attachments you send, which can slow down business operations and projects. Leave attachment file types to PDFs, .doc, .txt, or .jpeg. They usually are of a reasonable size and can be opened on most machines and operating systems.

19. Separate Work from Play

It's not wise to use your company email to send personal messages to friends and relatives. Use your business email for colleagues and business acquaintances only, for two reasons: to maintain the professional nature of your inbox, and to limit wasteful use of email storage space.

20. Ensure Your Email Wasn't Trashed

If you haven't heard back from a receiver, chances are that they are busy. Inquiring on whether or not they got your message could make it worse, but there are times when emails are quite pertinent. Wait a week to a week-and-a-half if time allows, and if you still don't have a reply, call them or dispatch another email.

21. Make Your Intentions Clear

When recipients only have a minute or two to read an email, you should make your message as concise and to the point as possible. Provide an outline in the beginning of the email of what you expect from the recipient before going a bit in depth.

22. Connect Email to Your Phone

To prevent recipients from waiting, connect your business email to your phone to ensure that you are able to reply to them in a timely manner. In the settings of most smart phones, you are able to adjust your signature.

23. Inner Company Acronyms

While acronyms are ill-advised to new acquaintances, creating company acronyms between co-workers can be a clever way to ensure that they understand the importance or intent of the message. Acronyms like "NRN" (No Reply Needed) can allow colleagues to know what messages are urgent and what can wait.

24. Extend What's in Email

It's easy to blame forgetting or misunderstanding a meeting request given through an email. Most email clients don't have alarm systems. This means it's your responsibility to apply outside the inbox what is relevant (creating calendar alerts for meetings, etc) to be productive.

25. Consider Time Differences

It can be aggravating to request a call or meeting through email and not hear back within a timely manner. It is necessary, however, to ensure that this isn't due to time zone differences. If you are requesting a call from an Australian acquaintance and you're in New York, ensure time zone differences are worked out.

26. Check Your Calendar

To prevent unnecessary back and forth emailing, it is wise to be mindful of  traditions and holidays in the culture or religion of your recipient. If you are in a country where Christmas isn't widely celebrated, it may not be wise to schedule a meeting for December 24th when the rest of your location is on business as usual.

27. Inform Employees on Etiquette

It's fine and dandy to follow all of these email etiquette tips yourself, but if you are the only one following them, it still gives your business a bad image. Share valuable email etiquette tips with your co-workers to ensure the business name is kept sound.
Let us know in the comments below of a moment when your email etiquette left a good impression on the recipient. Also, let us know when email etiquette was tossed out the window, and its outcome.

 
source: LifeHack

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