Tuesday, 11 June 2013

[www.keralites.net] TODAY'S MESSAGE FROM TRICHY PRASANNAN

TODAY'' S MESSAGE FROM TRICHY PRASANNAN

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Trichy Na Prasannan, Trichy, Tamil Nadu

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[www.keralites.net] 7 Body Language Secrets that Attract Women

7 Body Language Secrets that Attract Women

Landing the girl of your dreams isn't an easy feat. We know how much effort it takes to woo a lady and the size able charm you need to possess to be able to do so here are a few tips we came up with to help you get noticed.

1. Body Movements:

If you were to keenly observe the behaviour of other people, there are a lot of tells that will signal to you the kind of personality one has. Don't rush your movements because you're not in a hurry to impress the girl and maintain a confident posture – fidgeting around, anxiously looking around and standing with a hunchback are all signs of insecurity and women don't find that attractive.

2. Dominate your space:
Woman like an alpha male, a man who assumes control will put a woman at ease in his presence. Control doesn't imply being dominating but someone who seems to know what they're made of and what they want. Stand tall in the space you occupy, don't move around too much or go out of your way to make room for others, you need to appear sure of yourself.

3. Comfort Seat:
When you're sitting down, don't let your shoulders slump – seat yourself comfortably and lean back. Also, make sure to not crosss your arms or your legs because it gives off a closed-off vibe.

4. Open Up:
Don't close yourself off while speaking to a woman. Your arms should be by your side and your palms open. Relax your shoulders and don't raise them up, it must seem as if you've just got a massage. Also, try to stretch your shoulders out and keep your chest and chin up. Keep your head held high or don't look down like you have something to be ashamed of.

5. Watch Your Mouth:
The way you speak to a woman is also very important. Women are very perceptive, they pick up on the smallest things. Don't hurry your sentences when you talk or speak loudly or in a strained voice. Speak in a soothing and calm tone, yet command her attention.

6. Put on a Good Face:
Always maintain eye contact. An honest man is one who can convey his sincerity through his eyes because that is where women look. Don't let your eyes wander, a woman must know she has your full attention or she'll lose interest or think you have. Doing this is a sure sign of invitation or interest. Smiling is a good way to create a sense of comfort. Also, make sure your jaw is relaxed and you're not frowning.

7. Don't Invade Her Personal Space:
Intimacy is good but if you're causing a woman discomfort then she might run the othe direction. You can communicate with subtle hints like lightly touching her arm or briefly holding her hand. If she doesn't mind these gestures then you can continue to hold her hand but don't make any sudden movements or go too close because women are very particular about this

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[www.keralites.net] Virginity tests conducted on over 400 prospective brides in M. P.

Virginity tests conducted on over 400 prospective brides in Madhya Pradesh

A marriage ceremony being held under Mukhyamantri Kanyadan Yojana in MP.

It seems that controversies will not go away from Madhya Pradesh Chief Minister Shivraj Singh Chouhan's pet scheme - Mukhyamantri Kanyadan Yojna, aimed to help girls from poor families tie the knot at government expense.

On Friday, officials in Betul district allegedly conducted virginity/pregnancy tests on more than 450 prospective brides, of whom over a dozen were detected to be pregnant.

The district administration has ordered an enquiry into the matter but maintained no direction was given to the officials to conduct virginity/pregnancy tests.

On Friday, Betul district administration organised a mass marriage ceremony under the Mukhyamantri Kanyaadan Yojna in village Hardu, that comes under Chicholi Block.

For the mass marriage ceremony, more than 400 brides in traditional bridal finery - gilded sarees and gold jewellery arrived, while grooms, mostly came in three-piece suit and safari suits.

However, minutes before the exchange of garlands, and after completion of other registration formalities, district officials asked prospective brides to go through virginity/pregnancy tests if they wish to avail benefits of the MKY scheme.

Quickly, under the presence of two district health workers - J Budholiya and Durga Malviya alleged virginity - pregnancy tests were conducted on over 400 prospective brides.

On the grounds of suspicion, we conducted pregnancy tests on the brides, health worker Durga Malviya told newspersons in village Hardu.

The tests revealed nine of them were pregnant, said an official.

After the tests by district officials on the brides was over, chanting of vedic hymns begin and over 380 brides belonging to different caste and communities garlanded and tied the magalsutras, with officials pronouncing them to be husband and wives before the sacred fire.

Local legislator Gita Uike (BJP), who along with scores of government officials present during the occasion said she will take up the matter with the district collector.

She said she wanted to know the rules under which any tests were conducted on women who had come for the mass weddings.

Local legislator Gita Uike (BJP), Vijay Shah former Minister and other government officials were also present during the occasion.

However, the collector said no virginity test was conducted, but added that some couples who tried to drew benefits of the scheme through unfair means were stopped.

"No direction was given to the officials to conduct virginity/pregnancy tests on the women who had come to take part in the weddings under the scheme. However, we have ordered an enquiry into the matter. The enquiry will be conducted by Neha Marwiah, Upper Collector and report will be presented in seven-days," Rajesh Prasad Mishr, Betul collector said.

And on the basis of the report, action will be taken against the guilty, he said.

This is not for the first time, when the local authorities ordered the virginity and pregnancy tests to weed out already-married brides and Chief Minister Shivraj Singh Chouhan's flagship scheme has landed into trouble.

In 2009, Shahdol district administration has conducted virginity and pregnancy tests on the 152 prospective brides, of whom 14 were detected to be pregnant.

Moreover, reports of fake marriages and middlemen taking commission to produce married couples as unmarried to get their marriage solemnised and drew monetary benefits have often come into news.

The state has received irregularities-related complaints against Mukhyamantri Kanyadan Yojana in over a dozen districts.

This scheme has been launched on the special initiative of Chief Minister Shivraj Singh Chouhan for helping poor families get rid of this worry in April 2006.

Marriages under the scheme are solemnised free of cost and all arrangements are made by the district administration.

Every bride is also provided assistance in the form of household items to the tune offRs.9,000 andRs.1,000 for bearing the expenses to attend a mass marriage ceremony, said an official.

The scheme aims to solemnise the marriage of daughters/widows/deserted women belonging to economically weaker sections and disabled category.

Between Apirl 1 2006 till this date, 1,60,977 mass marriages were solomenised under this scheme, the official added.

Read more at:http://indiatoday.intoday.in/story/pregnant-women-betul-mass-marriage-mp-mukhyamantri-kanyadan-yojana-india-today/1/279175.html

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Re: [www.keralites.net] News: believe it a LOT!

Dear Vijayan,

The purpose of existence is always a dilemma for mankind from time immemorial, but no religion could come up with a convincible answer. There is always a BUT for any religious argument on existence.

Mankind with his inquisitive mind could unfold the mystery of what, when and how of existence to a great extent but 'WHY' will always pervade our mind. It may be the last answer the mankind could find, But we don't need the answer of WHY for a peaceful existence and our march forward. The point where we demystify the 'WHY' holds the window for ultimate destruction Of all established religion.

-Ansar

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On 11-Jun-2013, at 9:16 AM, Vijayan Chenniparambath <ceepeevijayan@gmail.com> wrote:

No wonder. All these religions we practice today are of recent origin ( say 1500 to 3000 years and not more) where as human being survived on this earth for millennia not because of the merit of one or two faiths, but because of the customs and practices which are inherent in them.If a fish in the depth of the ocean, or say,a tiny ant under our own feet knows how to go about in life, how to find food, how to run away from danger, how to bring up younger ones and how to look after their family, we are the only ones who never ever explore our own inherent skills, but listen to others for a solution.The all pervading creator, if one may call that way, embedded in all the creatures what ever is necessary. To that extent, I feel, identifying ourselves as only a link in the big chain is the starting point ( which the Jain religion at least tried ) and not to project humans as the all pervading one.

On Mon, Jun 10, 2013 at 1:08 PM, krishnan iyer <krish4949@yahoo.co.in> wrote:

Believe it or not, atheism is the fastest growing RELIGION in the world…

I hold and repeatedly stress that Hindu Gods and Hinduism (no, I won't comment about the others, but people are free to drawn their own conclusions) are the CREATION (or figment of the imagination!) of people who founded them.

Some additional fodder for thought is provided in Hindustan Times today by its health editor Sanchita Sharma…

",,, an increasing number of educated people in developed countries are describing themselves as religiously unaffiliated… it's difficult to pt a number on atheists worldwide, but the trend is clear: faith and belief in God declines wherever the quality of life improves. Nigel Barber argues in his 'Why atheism will replace religion: The triumph of earthly pleasure over pie in the sky, is a security blanket that gives hope to the deprived. If you give them money instead, people forget religion and get their fix from drugs, alcohol and/or entertainment.."

(Me: Most of us 'educated' Indians continue to believe in Gods: we go to college not to seriously study science – and develop a scientific temper that questions irrationality and superstitious beliefs – but to learn the subject by rote to acquire a degree and land a cushy job!).

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Me make no bones of my antipathy for cricket… I wonder how cricket that is played over 5 or 6 hours a day for 5 days and that most often ends in a tame, drab draw, offering no edge-of-the-seat entertainment can be called a sport. The one-day international is only slightly better.

Now, Karan Thapar in HT offers some insight on why match- and/or spot-fixing is so blatantly, brazenly common in cricket.

"Given that you can never tell whether a no ball, a wide ball, a full toss or simply a bad delivery was deliberate or accidental, isn't cricket unique in providing fertile ground for fixing. Could it be that spot-fixing is happening in any or every game, at any time, in any country, without anyone knowing except those who are involved? Indeed, is cricket more vulnerable than other major international sports such as football, tennis or athletics? I don't know but I wouldn't be surprised if the answer is yes."

Me: If Srisanth made 20 lakhs rupees for a faking a single over consisting of just six ball deliveries, the bookies and the fraud betters would have made a killing of at least a couple of crores, out of the single over, at the cost of other relatively genuine punters).

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Deft definition for economics by Ben Bernanke, chief of US Federal Reserve, the oracle himself, no less..

"Economics is a highly sophisticated field of thought that is superb at explaining to policymakers precisely why the choices they made in the past were wrong"

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Shobhaa De's new interpretation for BCCI = Board of Crooked and Corrupt India

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The news not so well publicized…

Spying helped foil NYC terror plot

A senior US intelligence official said the secret programme that tracked hundreds of millions of domestic phone records helped disrupt a 2009 terror plot to bomb New York City subways, as it was thwarted because of the secret collection of phone records by the NSA.

(If there was no e-surveillance and the plot had been successful, the same armchair critics in the media would have panned the government for being grossly ineffective. Secret eavesdropping is a small price that the otherwise law-abiding citizens have to and be prepared to pay).

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